oks me and my g/f have been having sex now for about 2 months... she's 15 and she's 4 days late for her period (5 days tomorrow) we always use condoms but she's not on the pill... HELP PLEASE
please like tell me what to tell her? what r the chances of getting pegnant when uing condoms that have not broken fallen off etc... plus i feel that she has been under stress lately with assignments, friends and she's changed her eating habits from not much to more... also if the worst case scenario happens when to signs such as breast tenderness etc start happening?
sorry bout the double post i just need answers
2006-09-10 03:27:36 · 12 answers · asked by Xmy_short_storyX 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i'm 17yo....
2006-09-10 03:36:20 · update #1
Get her a pregnancy test. Teenage girls are usually notorious for having irregular cycles.
After this, you really shouldn't be having sex with her. Depending on the state you live in, you could be committing a crime which could have lasting results especially when you turn 18.
If you have sex with her after you turn 18, you could be arrested, charged, and have to register as a sex offender for the rest of YOUR life.
2006-09-10 04:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not of the pill then it is not unusual for her to have varying periods.
That is what she needs to know.
What you need to know is that a condom is not fool proof.
A home pregnancy test won't show her anything until she is 4 to 5 weeks pregnant. So think about the last time you had sex and in 4 to 5 weeks from that date take the home pregnancy test.
In the meanwhile be patient. Things are what they are. Accept that and deal with whatever comes your way.
2006-09-10 11:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She only has a 2% chance of getting pregnant with a condom. She could be missing a period due to stress or hormonal imbalance. Mine was over a week late this time and i'm not sure why. My best friend hasnt had hers in over 6 months but she's not pregnant.
2006-09-11 22:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by SinginChic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to lecture you about the risks of adolescent sex, you just discovered one of many. However, even using a condom it could have had a pinhole tear in it, and as you know only one sperm is needed to fertilize an egg. The best thing to tell her to do is get a home pg test (they are not 100%) and if it is positive or other signs develop (tire, throwing up, breast tenderness, etc), you and her will have to sit down with both sets of parents and tell them that she is pg. DO NOT PUT YOUR HEAD IN THE SAND, the longer you wait to tell them the more limited your options are.
2006-09-10 10:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that she is pregnant, buy a test from the chemist. Stress and changes in diet can also cause lateness of periods. Better to make sure tho, a test is about 8 to 10 pounds and are quiet reliable.
2006-09-10 10:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by ada wong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should take a home pregnancy test..that will tell her for sure and put her mind at ease.
how old are you? If you are older you should know not to have sex with minors.
Every woman's symptoms are different, whne i got pregnant the tenderness was there right away.
Go out NOW and buy her a home pregnancy test. Be a man.
2006-09-10 10:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the chances are probably not that high..i know when i am stressed and worried about getting my period, it comes late...tell her to relax, i know thats not easy, and if i doesnt come in a few more days, i would go to your dr and ask for a test..they would be more than happy to help..or you can buy an at home one, but just make sure to follow the directions..hang in there
2006-09-10 10:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stress can delay a period
and yes its very likely that she can get preganent from condomes breaking and falling off
if she is she should start noticing changes in her body in the next couple of weeks.
i just hope that you will be a man and stand by her in watever happens
theres nothing you can tell her she will know herself if she is preganent.get a home preganency test in the next coupe of weeks and see
2006-09-13 02:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your freind shouldn't have sex at age 15 and if she is scared of being pregnant take a preganacy test and if it negitvie your freind is probaly not periods tend to skip a couple days weeks even mothns
2006-09-10 11:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by helse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gf should get on the pill. tell her to relax and it may come. take a soothing bath, go exercise, read, take some time off and not worry. If it doesnt come in a few more days take a pregnancy test.
2006-09-10 10:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋