since i turned about 12 i would go to target or some place just me and my dad. and for some reason my dad would always leave me and when i would go to find him i would be so scared then i would find him and he would seem lik he was sad to see me, then he would leave me agian. my dad is so wierd.. now when i go out with freinds i always have the voice in the back of my head saying there gunna leave me and it ruins the whole night..
how do i get over the voices? lol p.s. im not crazylol? am i??
2006-09-10 02:52:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your not.
just stick with your dad all the time at all costs. if you and him have a cell phone just call him and ask where he is. or just tell him how you feel and maybe he will pay more attention. some adults just end up with a face that makes them look sad or mad. my mom and dad look mad all the time but they are totally happy. To overpower the voices just talk with them a little and pay attention to other things. like the brands of the foods and the clothing and stuff.
2006-09-10 02:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Laela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad messed you up. When you start to feel afraid think about how things are different now. Your friends are not your dad. They don't HAVE to hang out with you if they didn't like you. Suppose they did leave you as a joke? What would you do? I'm sure you would be just fine even if they did so it's nothing to worry about You're not a small child. You'll be okay. It's great that you know why you have the fear. Many people have irrational fears because of something that happened in the past but they don't know what the something is. Those are harder to resolve.
2006-09-10 03:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First.way did you not say anything to your mom???!!! 2ND if he keeps leaving you, why do you keep going with him to the store? When you goes find your dad, he look sad when he see you? Sound fishy.then leave you again.!?!?!? I thing that is what you call child abandonment, You need help There is a number you need to call. teen crisis center.. No you are not Crazy you just have a F***** up Dad, I don't mean to sound Mean. I'm not What he is doing is Mental abuse, God Bless you
2006-09-10 03:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe explain this to your closes friend and if the re-insure that they will not leave you you might feel a little more secure. Just go with people you can really trust.
2006-09-10 02:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you arent crazy... for a day, i had a very murderous and angry voice... i would imagine killing everybody and i'm not crazy. i repeat, i am not crazy.
okay, so... maybe you're worried you'll dad will walk out on you and that voice is sorta reinforcing that? you ought to talk to your dad about it...
now, how to get over your voices... hm... try to overpower it! concentrate on something else... i listen to music and read to get rid of them.
2006-09-10 02:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by misery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your dad why he always leave you at them places?
2006-09-10 02:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by casper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crazy people don't ask the question.
the fear is irrational. recognizing that is the 1st step.
2006-09-10 02:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by who R U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'll take time after you hang with them for a while and they don't leave you then you'll feel good
2006-09-10 02:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by Gu3rA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your crazy
2006-09-10 02:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by jon k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋