I have been with my boyfriendfor 3 years b4 that i never been in a serious relatuonship. i fell in luv with him and he said he is in luv with me. we decided to move in 2gether for more tha 1 year. about 3 months ago he told me that he have a fiancee back home and he is not sure what to do becoz he is in love with both of us. dont know what to do help!
2006-09-10 02:43:02 · 12 answers · asked by nicest 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is having his cake and eating it (that would be you), Have you played poker. It's time to fold, If he can keep that away from you, what else is he hiding? Please go see your Doc, And get a Check up, he may have given you something. i'm tring not to be mean, good luck
2006-09-10 02:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would be out the door - that should tell you alot about his character and integrity. Do you want him as a role model for your children. Also, no matter what you will never be able to trust him...you'll always wonder if he has something secret going on.
2006-09-10 09:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by totalstressor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! How did that happen? OK, I know this is going to be hard but you need to get rid of this guy. Ive been in relationships longer than 3yrs so i know how you feel, but you need to do this. This guy is not right for you, if he really did love you he wouldnt be with 2 women.
2006-09-10 09:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is up to ur bf to decide. life is unpredictable. so, after this be more carefull of falling in love. love hurts sometimes. im sure ur bf will choose the best 4 him and accept the facts. ok!!
2006-09-10 09:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by myra 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart. You know you deserve better, someone thats going to devote themselves fully to you. If he's done this to his fiancee then he probably will do it to you also. It's hard, seeing its your first relationship, but what hurts you, only makes you stronger and wiser, i wish you luck.
2006-09-10 09:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write him off.You are wasting your time. If he had a fiance in the first place why did he not tell you?He is cheating on you.
2006-09-10 09:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a lying cheating *****. Leave him right now. He has lied to you all this time and doesn't deserve your love.
2006-09-10 09:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get out of the relationship..You will never get what you need out of this..He is clueless and will never change..You will find a good man out there, that will be your truest love, just give it time..Things don't happen overnight..
2006-09-10 09:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by shay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave and sort out his life and decide what/who he wants.
2006-09-10 09:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes scum. leave him. if he kept it a secret that long then he doesnt love either of you the way you think he does
2006-09-10 09:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by jon k 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋