myself got married before four years.my husband youger sister is the lady i hate now.actually i dont haye her,but.when i was staying in my hubbys house after getting married,there were no one else than a servant.my husband parents are no more and his sister stay abroad.but after 4months when i got pregnant,hi sister came to stay in my hubbys house as they got to change the visit visa.as i was not aware of cooking much our servant used to make food for us,i also started makin food one by one at that time,but still i was not much expert.durin her stay wth us our servant used to tell some pranks about me to her,and our servant onec made aissue that im useless i dont knwo to make food and all,i polietly told her that i will study soon and amke food,but she or sister in lwas never heard,they tried to avoid me like anything and from that time to 3month of my pergnancy i kept quiet watching all tshes pranks then one dy i shouted and screamed which instantl make my hubby to raise hands at me.
2006-09-10 02:39:07 · 7 answers · asked by molmy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
then sister in law left after two months,there after we also shifted abroad after delivery and my son is three year old now.my hubby and myself used to have simple fights,but one day while fighting i spoke that ur sister behaves indecently and she is bad,so he got angry and he lft home the whole night and came back early morning and my aunti enquired about him at his sisters home and my ssiter in law informed my parents that im fighting wth my husband and that they should speak.then from that day i started hating her like anything and till now or before(tht is soon after our married time)never spoke to me nicely or never considered me as her brothers wife,i felt tht she always considered me as a thrid party at home.but my hubby understand me,eventhough i had a fight abt this matter.he knows tht i always tried to keep good relation with her bu his sister in lwas never tried.plese help,should i continue the relation wth my sister inlaw?plese solve my problem
2006-09-10 02:45:52 · update #1
my hubby is very loving and caring,but tjose instance happened since he was also out of control at that horrible moment,i really love my hubby and he too love me like anything.don misunderstand ou relation ship please.
2006-09-10 02:49:01 · update #2
It takes 2 people to make a good relationship. You cannot make it good by yourself. A man who raises his hand to his pregnant wife is not a good husband. Sorry.
2006-09-10 02:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by oohhbother 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the servant is jealous of you, your home and being married to your husband. Either get rid of her or keep her so busy she won't have time to think. If you want to be clever, find something you can do that she is bad at, then show her that not everyone is good at everything.
Sisters-in-law are often not friends. All you can do is try to be polite to her and not meet up too often.
2006-09-10 09:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by XT rider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband to fire the servant and get another. If you have hurt your sister in law in some way say sorry to her. That will be start of good relation with her.
2006-09-10 09:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for future-never ever let any one live within ur house from any relation, and i am sorry if ur servant have the courage to disrespect you, u r responsible for his courage, and whos ur hubby, he may feel ashamed of himself..........
2006-09-10 09:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by drivingbolero24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest English isn't your first language. Where abouts are you?
If your husband hit you, then you should leave him.
2006-09-10 09:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he hit you while you were pregnant?? that whole situation sounds messed up, get 0ut
2006-09-10 09:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
servant????????????????????????????????????????
you really suck!
2006-09-10 09:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by Pi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋