My parents died in a car crash, a drunk driver hit them! I know that there's still my brothers and sisters here with me! But I feel so alone! Almost like the walls are closing in on me! I feel usless! What should I do! I have no desire to do anything! I have no desire to get out of bed at times! And I can't wait till bedtime again! What's wrong with me! What's the meaning of life! I don't have many friends either and I feel like i'm going to go out of my mind! Everyone wonders what's wrong with me, but I don't tell anyone! What should I do! I have no desire to even open my eyes to a new day cause I know that with each passing day this feeling inside me just keeps getting worse! Please can anyone just answer my questions! What's the meaning of living when there's nothing left to live for! No parents, no more nice s, no more life! I it, what should I do now? Please i need some advice! I always feel like i'm going down a dark road all alone! What should I do?
2006-09-10 02:38:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know how u feel, same thing happened to me.
Personally i would kill that guy who drove into ur parents, but im clever enough no to get cought
If what u say is true, then u will now find urself becoming far smarter and far far more mature. This experience and everything that follows will make u a king among most others, although u will not be happy until u work to make it so.
There is no meaning to life, all u can do is live out ur life and try to make the best of it. Not be happy with what u have, not that.. i mean do whatever u can to make sure that u get whatever u want to get, because life is short and even though its meaningless and our entire species is only one in an infinate universe where nothing we do matters in the least, u can use that to best ur life and create the happiness that u deserve.
And with what u will become u will be able to see so much more then other ppl and to help society in many ways.
Oh, and dont be suckerd into religion, its ********. There is no god or heaven or hell and praying does nothing, dont waste the little time u have.
2006-09-10 02:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont kill yourself. You need time to re cooperate and just rest. I know ths is really hard but the best thing I can tell you is to keep yourself busy. You need to do activties like join clubs and play sports so that you can meet more friends. Try getting closer if your borther and sister cause you got them for the rest of your life. The meaning of life will only come in time...right now get out of bed and try to do something with your life. Thats what your parents would want.
2006-09-10 09:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is not related with our personal thinkings.Life in a broarder
concept is the way we live for others. If you are alone then make some friends, or a be a friend of some one. Start helping your neighbours, poor, and the needy. Then the meaning of life for you will be changed.
2006-09-10 09:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by eitemad_eitemad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A meaning will come but you have to get over your grieving first. Losing a love one can be hard, and especially hard of you lose both your parents in an accident at the same time.
Don't beat yourself up. This is something you are going to have feel and slowly but surely you'll be able to pick yourself up.
2006-09-10 09:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could always pray to God and he'll answer you, you are living because God has a plan for you, you're not alone God is with you he has a plan for your life just listen to you're heart
2006-09-10 09:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by Josh 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look around u . ull get ur cause.
2006-09-10 09:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by jeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry :(((
Becca , the one above me is Pure Evil .. F*uck you B*itch
2006-09-10 09:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well simply kill yourself to be with your parents but then again killing yourself isa a sin and you would go to hell and burn enternity
2006-09-10 09:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by becca . 4 · 0⤊ 5⤋
The question "what is the meaning of life?" means different things to different people. The vagueness of the query is inherent in the word "meaning", which opens the question to many interpretations, such as: "What is the origin of life?", "What is the nature of life (and of the universe in which we live)?", "What is the significance of life?", "What is valuable in life?", and "What is the purpose of, or in, (one's) life?". These questions have resulted in a wide range of competing answers and arguments, from scientific theories, to philosophical, theological, and spiritual explanations.
Popular beliefs
"What is the meaning of life?" is a question many people ask themselves at some point during their lives, most in the context "What is the purpose of life?" Here are some of the many potential answers to this perplexing question:
Survival and temporal success
* ...to accumulate wealth and increase social status
* ...to advance natural human evolution, or to contribute to the gene pool of the human race
* ...to advance technological evolution, or to actively develop the future human
* ...to compete or co-operate with others
* ...to destroy others who harm you, or to practice nonviolence and nonresistance
* ...to die having succeeded in your purpose
* ...to gain and exercise power
* ...to leave a legacy, such as a work of art or a book
* ...to live
* ...to produce offspring through sexual reproduction or asexual reproduction
* ...to protect one's family
* ...to pursue a dream, vision, or destiny
* ...to seek freedom, either physically, mentally or financially
* ...to seek happiness and flourish, experience pleasure or celebrate
* ...to survive, including the pursuit of immortality through scientific means (see life extension)
Wisdom and knowledge
* ...to be without question, or to keep asking questions
* ...to expand one's perception of the world
* ...to explore, to expand beyond our frontiers
* ...to learn from one's own and others' mistakes
* ...to seek truth, knowledge, understanding, or wisdom
* ...to try to discover and understand the meaning of life
* ...to understand creation
Ethical
* ...to achieve a supernatural connection within the natural context
* ...to achieve enlightenment and inner peace
* ...to achieve rebirth in the Pure Land
* ...to become like God, or God-like
* ...to be rewarded for your deeds
* ...to experience existence from an infinite number of perspectives in order to expand the consciousness of all there is (i.e. God)
* ...to express compassion
* ...to follow the "Golden Rule"
* ...to give and receive love
* ...to live in a way that you don't harm yourself and don't harm your environment
* ...to work for justice and freedom
Religious and spiritual
* ...to be a filter of creation between heaven and hell
* ...to die and become a martyr
* ...to live in peace with each other, and in harmony with our natural environment (see utopia)
* ...to produce useful structure in the universe over and above consumption (see net creativity)
* ...to protect humanity, or more generally the environment
* ...to reach Heaven in the afterlife
* ...to seek and acquire virtue, to live a virtuous life
* ...to serve others, or do good deeds
* ...to turn fear into joy at a constant rate achieving on literal and metaphorical levels: immortality, enlightenment and atonement
* ...to understand and follow the "Word of God"
* ...to worship, serve, or achieve union with God
* ...to disprove the existence of a or all all gods
Other
* ...to achieve self-actualisation
* ...to contribute to collective meaning ("we" or "us") without having individual meaning ("I" or "me")
* ...to find a purpose, a "reason" for living that hopefully raises the quality of one's experience of life, or even life in general
* ...to live, and enjoy the passage of time
* ...to have fun
* ...to participate in the inevitable increase in entropy of the universe
* ...to make the conformists' lives miserable (see non-conformism)
* ...to participate in the chain of events which has led from the creation of the universe until its possible end (either freely chosen or determined, this is a subject widely debated amongst philosophers)
* ...to relate, connect, or achieve unity with others
* ...to resolve all problems that one faces, or to ignore them and attempt to fully continue life without them, or to detach oneself from all problems faced (see Buddhism)
* ...to seek and find beauty
* ...as there is no intrinsic meaning to life, to each individual, the "meaning of life" is whatever he/she decides it is. In that sense, every point above is potentially valid.
* ...an answer to the question "What is the meaning of life?" is that it is just simply being able to ask the question, "What is the meaning of life?" (see Sri Sri Ravi Shankar below)
* ...a combination of any of the above.
No purpose, and therefore...
* ...to simply live until one dies (there is no universal or celestial purpose)
* ...just a series of events
* ...just nature taking its course
* ...the wheel of time keeps on turning
* ...the cycle of life
* ...whatever you see you see, as in "projection makes perception"
* ...there is no purpose or meaning whatsoever (see nihilism)
* ...who cares?
2006-09-14 09:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋