I would like to make friends with people. How? no one seems to like me.?

Question

I have approch many people and started to talk to them. And then they talk to me a little and go off. I don't have many friends. I like to have friends. One of the people I have to, to make friends with was an homosexual. I have said hi to him and wave to him but I think he though I was hitting on him or he wanting nothing to do with me. I don't understand what people wants nothing to do with me.

Thank you for answering. what have I been talking to them about .. A few of them were playing magic the card game and they taught my some of it but they are just being friendly to me because I am a friend of one of theirs but I have noticed if it is not in the area where they play magic they did not noticed me.
As for the other statement. I am not ugly just overweight. I think I just try to hard and a little over friendly.
oh I ususally do talk about them or talk about what they are doing.. like when they play magic

Answer 1

It seems to me that the people you talk to are involved in things that revolve around them: their family, friends, girl/boyfriends, their fave shows, bands, etc. People like to feel like the world revolves around them because if you're not part of what they want, you don't exist. Why would you want to be part of people like that anyway? you need to be more sociable. Mix in with every crowd at the school: the unpopular kids, the goths, the popular kids, kids from every class. I mean, you need to be into everything people around each section is into and just enter their conversations by introducing yourself and tell them you're new to the school and are looking for friends. Again, mix and mingle with everyone because if you don't you'll always be alone and neither you or I want that. Remember be yourself and believe in yourself! Good Luck!
I'll be your friend, click on my pic & leave me a message.

Answer 2

When meeting new people what do you talk about. Do you take an interest in what they are saying? Or do you talk all about yourself? Conversation takes two people and you have to show an interest in the other person. Do the people you talk to have anything in common with you, are their interests the same. Do you present yourself well. Nobody wants to be with someone who doesn't bath, has greasy hair etc. Do you have an overpowering personality? Trying to hard to make new friends? There are many things that put people off even when first meeting someone. I know several people who came across as overbearing (pushy) because of shyness. They tried so hard and didn't let their real personality show through. Check out what you are doing when meeting new people, how you act and talk. Good Luck, and I am sure there are people who will someday end up being your friends.

Answer 3

I can relate to u
making friends is hard i know but the one thing u have to
consider is to be a friend and like yourself first
if u have one good friend that is all u need
I was lucky to find 3 good friends
my best friend and I live to gether in residence
but now we are close as ever
when the right friend comes along u will know as for
the others if they dont want anything to do with u that is there loss and they could be missing out on something
great

Answer 4

Everyone has this problem at some point in their life. You have to be yourself, have self confidence, and know when the right friend comes along. Don't go up to random people and start by saying, "Hey, I'm Bob, and I have no friends. Do you want to hang out?" If you want to make friends, help a girl carry her books to her car (or the bus), join clubs and sports and become pals with your team mates, ask the quiet dude who sits behind you in math if he wants to hang out at the football game later...things like that. You can't force yourself on people, that pushes them away. If someone is nice to you, be polite back, and try making a short conversation next time you see them. Get to know someone, and then you will become pals. And don't try to take on the entire school at one time. Work slowly. Find a friend, and stick with them, and then find another...it will all work out for you, I promise. Oh, and you have a friend in me.


~:Lizzy

Answer 5

It's probably time to find a new group of people to hang out with. If you're not having a good time with your current friends it's not a healthy relationship because your needs are met for social interaction. You should start interacting with others with the same maturity level as yourself. Goodluck.

Answer 6

Friends can be hard to get. You are dealing with all kinds of people. I too, do not have many friends, and the ones I would call a friend, I have met on line. I try also to make friends, and most do not like to keep in touch and it sucks. I say hi to a lot of people and none of them are friends....try the Internet.

Answer 7

it's obvious that u think about this too much and it comes out in silly actions that u do that make people wanna go away. if u just relax a little things might change. when u talk to a person don't be so afraid that u'r not interesting or cool or that the person will walk away if u don't say something fast...just chill

Answer 8

make sure that u remember their name
don't critic them, most of people don't like critic
keep smile to people so they know that u r friendly
try to listen to them so they will listen to u
don't hesitate to say sorry and tnx
help them if they find some difficulties
take part in some activity, ex: basketball club or something else that u like.
do not over acting, they don't like that
just be confident
and be your self
well if all this still doesn't work, I'm gonna be your friend...

Answer 9

Maybe it's the subject matter that you chat them up with. How would you feel if a stranger came up to you to ask, "Hey, dude, what's the best way to rid my lawn of moles?"

Here is the secret: people like to talk about themselves. So draw them out, find out what they like, think, do.

Answer 10

It appears you are diffident and shy. Seek advice from your senior (a girl) and dress well. Give your self a facial and tidy up. You will find you are much more confident and soon you will have many friends. Good Luck!