So how's it going with you and the spouse? You two a tight match, or you don't think the teams gonna make it? How long have you been married, and are you still in Love?
2006-09-10 02:24:42 · 10 answers · asked by corpuscollossus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
been with him eleven years, and i don't think we are gonna make it. I asked advice today, because i am at my wits end. I love him, but i really do not like him. he makes me feel like a waste of space.I also think he is cheating, but cannot prove it. he gets pissed if i ask about it. I have done counseling, begging, crying, and he just don't care. I am lost and heartbroken. We were seperated for almost 2 years, and nothing changed, except now he does not try to have sex with me while i am asleep--could be because i don't sleep enough for him to do it anymore, tho.when we were broke up, i could not find any one else to be with and was so lonely.now i feel like if i am 29, mother of 2, and one mans rubbish, who would want me?and if someone did want me, would it be only because i am tall and blonde?I have alot to offer, i can cook, am smart--3.89 gpa in my summer semester, and that was 10 credit hours, no easy load, but you have to know me to know these things.
2006-09-10 02:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dyma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im afraid to say it, mines doomed and has been for about a year, weve married married, two, but i knew the day we married that i was an idiot and shouldnt have dont it , by the way i bawled for 15minutes in a room by myself before the ceremony, and then during and after the ceremony......it doesnt help, when i realised about a year ago, that im deeply in love with a man i shouldnt be, and i know he has feelings to, but being the type of people we are, and having respect for my husband, i know that nothing will ever come of it, while we remain married, as i could never hurt him in that way and he couldnt do it either as thay are friends and so we must suffer insilence and as friends until the day we are able to freely admit it.
Until then this is my punishment for doing such a thing.
2006-09-10 02:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have been married for 15 years and still love and respect each other. Yes it also takes respect and loyalty along with love for a marriage to last. We have a great relationship and are happy together.
2006-09-10 03:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by mistypa12000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i have been married almost 12 years,had a storybook life,until now.hopefully just a rough patch,every relationship goes through,at least,one.we're trying to work everything out,i would hate to think of just giving up.who's to say that we both couldn't end up in a MUCH worse situation if we did.
2006-09-10 02:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by wondering wife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 6 MONTHS NOW AND ME AND MY HUSBAND ARE STILL IN LOVE WE ARE DEFINITELY A TIGHT MATCH AND I WOULD NOT CHANGE WHO I MARRIED FOR THE LIFE OF ME HES THE MOST AMAZING THING THAT HAS HAPPENED TO ME WHY GET MARRIED IF YOUR GOING TO GET DIVORCED ONCE I SAID I DO I DO FOREVER
2006-09-10 02:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 years, going through a pretty rough patch and if I weren't a Christian who didn't believe in divorce, likely doomed-instead I am, so I will fight tooth and nail to keep it together.
2006-09-10 02:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by VitaminDude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we been married since june been together a year, and things are still very good, we work at it , we take time for each other, and we do the little things for each other
2006-09-10 02:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my wife of 10 years at the cellular level.... I can't think of anything more I could say.
2006-09-10 02:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 14 years and divorced for 10
~~SWEET FREEDOM~~
2006-09-10 02:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by tw2251stst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kicked spouse's asss to the curb YEARS ago(-:
2006-09-10 02:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋