I'm a 17 year old male and i just don't seem to care about sex...when i consider the fact i may never have sex i just feel like thats okay...its like i've been castrated or something!
2006-09-10 02:20:01 · 4 answers · asked by lional h 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
the sex drive is all in the mind. at age 17 you stil have plenty of time to gain an interest in sex. Here'a a few suggestions to hopefully boost you into a desire for sex:
1. fondle your nipples, testicles, and penis. explore your entire body to see if there are any areas that when touched, stroked, etc. feel better than others. take your penis in your hand and stroke it up and up repeatedly. when it starts to feel sensational, your penis will become erect. keep going. you may want to stroke harder and faster. continue to fondle your nipples, testicles, ***, etc. with your free hand. eventually you'll be a super sensation in your penis, indicative of the fact that your penis is ready to shoot. go with it. let your penis explode the semen that needs releasing;
2. fantasize about a girl you find sexually attractive. maybe she is a movie or t.v. start or a fellow student. let your mind run wild with ideas about how she would look nude, what you and she could do together, how her touch would feel, how touching her would feel, how giving her oral sex or receiving oral sex from her would feel, and how it would feel to have your penis inside her vagina----pumping back and forth with her moaning with pleasure.
while doing the fantasizing, try jerking off to the images and feelings that you are experiencing. it's OK. have fun with the fantasy. it's yours alone. relax, speak out loud about the sensations, give your fantasy woman instructions as to what feels arousing.
your imagination is very helpful in geting the sex drive into gear. once you experience sex for the first time, i'm sure that you'll remember the phenominal sensations. this will serve to keep your sex drive going, as you coninue to want to revisit this world of esctasy.
go for it!
2006-09-11 03:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex drive is in the mind. You may not simply have matured sexually. I didn't until my 20's. It is different for everyone. I founf that once I had given myself my first orgasm, which I'm afraid didn't happen until I was 19, I was more interested in having the wonderful feeling again. I am sure that at 17, and a guy, you have had an ejaculation before, so maybe you should just explore your own body before you think about sharing yourself with someone else. It will come to you naturally, and in time.
2006-09-11 16:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by Seph7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky if you are not bothered by sex desire.
2006-09-12 21:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by devotionalservice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll grow into it.
2006-09-10 10:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by grey_sky_morning84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋