2006-09-10 02:01:42 · 30 answers · asked by jay dee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I DON'T SEE A PROBLEM WITH BEING MARRIED SO WHY DO ALL OF YOU
2006-09-10 02:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-18 19:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so many women probably feel the way you do as your dream was the big wedding, wedding dress, ring, reception, presents and honeymoon, once all that has gone there isn't anything left. My husband and I met in the middle of January 1999 and married 6 months later, we had 2 guests, no presents and spent our wedding night camping in a 2 man tent on the top of a mountain, the whole event cost less than £200.00, it was the most perfect day of our lives, if we were doing it all again there isn't one thing that we would change about it, the marriage was about true love and intimacy,. not about show. Every day gets better and better.
2006-09-11 11:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married. But I was in a long serious relationship where we lived together and things seemed all good and all i wanted to do was to marry this guy and live happily ever after. But after time i realised that i didnt want to stay with him forever and therefore couldnt marry him. After a time I found myself in another serious relationship and of course there was talk of marriage and thats what i wanted. Recently I feel ive changed and although i do want to stay with this guy i no longer want to marry him but i dont love him any less, ive always dreamed of my wedding day since a little girl like everyone else!! but in a way i feel like if its not broke - dont fix it! our families are waiting for us to announce our engagement and even my partner has been frequently bringing up the marriage conversation but my outlook has changed and maybe the fact that my partner's brother got married last sept and they announced their seperation after nine months!! Its like in a way i feel as though we could both walk away right now very easliy which i think in turn makes us work harder. I guess the same must apply to being married - maybe its even harder cos you've got to work at the romance and stuff and maybe marriage makes people complacent and take the other for granted cos they're like " well we're married now so...." then of course its gonna f**k up. Nothing happens quickly in relationships whether it be improvement or falling apart, as long as you change things while you still can then you can live your dream of being married - its like most things in this life, If there's a will there's a way!
2006-09-13 01:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by Becky H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I imagine many would say yes to this question. There are pros and cons always which become apparent with the passing of the years. It is the going into it for the right reasons which is important. If marriage is untertaken solely on the basis of some romantic dream it will be a disapointment but if it is entered as a partnership, a union of shared love and mutual respect then it will exceed expectations.
2006-09-10 20:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a blokes point of view I managed to single handed destroy the best thing that happened to me- my wife. We managed a year and a half before, when things got difficult, I took the easy option and walked away. Regreted it ever since. I completely ruined her and the memories of her face in dis pair and the way she cried for days makes me feel sick. Luckily I saw her recently- she had been in Australia for 8 mths. We managed to sit down and talk and explain how we both felt- and the love still be there!! On the down side is that she is now on 8mths travelling again so missing her again- but at least we can save our marriage. Do not get married if you are not prepared to work at it. I learnt the hard way.
2006-09-10 15:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is your definition of "dream'" when referring to marriage? There's the "idea" of marriage...and then there's real life. The problem is a lot of people go into marriage with such high expectations because they thought marriage is supposed to be like something they read in a book or movies that they are let down when real life with another person sets in and refuse to put in the hard work required to make it last.
I know everyone wants to have "the perfect fairy tale marriage"...but I'm a realist and I choose to look at marriage from a realistic pt of view because I know there are no such things as a fairytale marriage.
Marriage is work...and it's hard work at that. And it takes a lot from both couples to make it work, everyday, for the rest of their married lives.
2006-09-10 02:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, although while I lived the dream, or should I say illusion, I didn't realise it had been my dream, I had fought for the dream but not see it was my dream. Then I discovered it was all an illusion and what I had been fighting for was the creation of the doom
I had to see the illusion to want to escape it-thank god I did because now I follow the real dreams, yet they are while I sleep-things sort of reversed for me, my dreams while awake to those while I sleep...I share my dreams of the night, all become part of a theory to share with others, so they can see as I do..
Fate huh, strange ways of working :D
2006-09-10 02:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by WW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I now regret doing so as i have now found that i truely love another, yet can never have, while we are both commited in such a way, so that either cannot easily break free.....but im afraid that once you have made a commited decision such as one like this, you either try to make it work, and stick it out for as long as is bearable, particiularly, if neither has done anything wrong to instigate such behaviour, or you leave and risk hurting more than just yourself and your partner.....
My advice is to find out if its what you truely want before you do so, and dont allow anyone to push you into it, if you dont you will end up in a similair position.
2006-09-10 02:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is never going to be a pretty dream filled with pretty sparkly bits, with the woman an eternal beautiful bride floating around on clouds of romance being served champagne by her devoted swain. It's about facing problems together, forgiving each other for not being perfect, each believing the other is more important than yourself (if he puts you first and you put him first, neither of you will ever be put last!) It's about looking after each other and always being kind and considerate to each other.
Give up the fairy tale and live the reality instead - it will be more rewarding than any fairy tale could be.
2006-09-10 02:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times (including in my case) the dream wears off because one or both partners have different views on what should be going on. You have to work together at marriage, it doesn't just magically turn into a fairy tale where you live happily ever after.
2006-09-10 02:17:11 · answer #11 · answered by Kimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋