love a man? I am almost 38 years old, been married for 13 years and honestly can say that I'm completely numb to love and a relationship, what's wrong with me?
2006-09-10 01:53:53 · 10 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like u have fallen into a routine with your husband and your life has lost some excitement. Nothing's wrong with u. U just have to bring that excitement back into your life.
2006-09-10 02:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothings wrong with you, except that you've been married for 13 years and after so long its easy to fall into a pattern and routine of everyday life. it just means you have to try something new again, maybe a college class at night, or going out to eat at a restaurant that you've never been to, or take a snorkeling class, what ever, think of something you've always wanted to do and then plan, and do it. you'll feel refreshed and renewed, oh and if your significant other gets involved even better. good luck.
2006-09-10 09:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. Marriage is alot of work. But don't give up. Try something new. Me and my husband have date night to keep us young. We go to movies, play paintball, etc. So thing you enjoy together. We have so much fun. Talk about what you use to do. Do special thing for each other like put a note saying i love you in his lunch box. you need to spice it up a little. Keep working at it.
2006-09-10 10:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lori K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you happy with your hubby, that's the main thing...as long as you guys are interesting for each other and that's all you 'd need , don't worry about looking for love maybe you expecting something, that you heard of before (in movies, books, wherever), but never experienced it yourself, , well I quess it's different for you and everybody...
2006-09-10 09:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by happydial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is maybe you have not really found the one you are to love in life, but you married and you must deal with that now. I do.
2006-09-10 09:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need more than love in your life.
1. Sex has to be good
2 Respect
3. Honor
4, Social events
5. Money
2006-09-10 08:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing sweetie it's called boredom.Maybe your hubby feels the same way sit down and talk about it
2006-09-10 08:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What did you want from this and why aren;t you getting it?
To the next question, what are you willing to do to get what you want?
2006-09-10 08:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing, you love yourself and dont need outside love to fufill you
2006-09-10 08:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by arizonaprincess2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lost you reason to live
2006-09-10 09:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by Doc Phil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋