I went to this girls house yesterday with 2 of my friends. The girl thinks that we are her friends. I never liked her to begin with. When she went on a field trip a couple weeks ago she threw a fit at my friend and I. But she still hung out with us and was okay. So we went to her house. We had a good time, untill she started lying to us. She kept pretending that some guy she liked was calling and when she was making the phone ring and having a coversation with herself. And she lied about saying she had an older sister. Then she threw another fit at me, because of something stupid and that wasnt a big deal. My friends and I are planning on telling her how we feel on Monday. How should we do that/ should we not be friends with her.
Sry its so long.
2006-09-10 01:34:35 · 10 answers · asked by missprep92 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
we are 14-15 year olds
2006-09-10 01:46:44 · update #1
She's nuts! You're right you should tell her how you feel,although she WILL have another fit. Say what comes to your mind but try to be nice about it,but after you're done don't apologize for what you've said. You don't EVER have to be friends with someone who you don't really like.
2006-09-10 01:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by lady_lastarra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this girl has a lot of mental issues that need to be dealt with.If she is throwing uncontrollable fits just over trivial crap,she definately sounds like she needs help soon before her fits turn into actions that might harm somebody.
Most people lie like that because they think there lives are boring or they want to be excepted so badly. Maybe you should just tell her that u r aware she is lying and tell her to just be herself,but because of her lying u dont know if u can trust her any more and u cant be freinds with ppeople u cant trust.Hopefully she will think about it and not make the same mistake when she makes new freinds.Unless u r all willing to give her another chance.
Goodluck i hope that helped
But lying is a big no no
2006-09-10 09:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by sheryl g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you probably shouldn't be frineds with her if she's lying. Just explain it to her that you don't really want to be friends with people who lie, try to be nice about it please. I'm sure you are nice girls I just know who younger girls are. I was one at one time. Anyways do fill your friend list up with good ppl who you enjoy and are honest. Those just maybe your friends for the rest of your life.
2006-09-10 08:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by johnsmom326 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to be friends with a liar. You really can't trust her. Just tell her straight that you don't wanna be friends with a liar. A liar will always be a liar no matter what.
2006-09-10 09:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i agree with you just tell her thats not a good idea for making friends and this is for only 11 years old girls which say these thing.even you have to tell her thats wierd to say this things.maybe its cuz of that she doesnt have any friends espcially bf.try not to make her sad.help her.she needs!
2006-09-10 08:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by ~nice girl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all she sounds like shes trying so hard to fit in, and its hilarious. just be like im sorry, but in the past you have lied to us, yelled at us for no reason. and we dont appreciate it. if you would like to have [any] friends for that matter, you have to respect them as they would respect you and dont lie to them to try to fit it or seem better then them. im sorry but we cant be friends with you.
hope this helps. good luck! :]
2006-09-10 08:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by yourrad_letsmakeout♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to grow up and get a life
2006-09-10 08:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by sarge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that lying is bad and i don't want to be friends with a layer.
2006-09-10 11:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by shabay24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her exactly how you are feeling and tell her that if she wants to be friends with you that she can't lie to you.
2006-09-10 08:40:31 · answer #9 · answered by color me bored 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her its not ur fault ur not beautiful its the ones who had sex
2006-09-10 08:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by babynam2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋