during marrige I usually request her but she never request me for se...does all ladies same
2006-09-10 01:16:31 · 10 answers · asked by sorena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, not all women are the same. What I would suggest to you is to talk to her freely (like husband & wife that you are) and tell her that sometimes you would like her to initiate things. Maybe she is from the old school that doesn't dare ask you because it might make her think you will be thinking less of her if she ask first. In my first marriage I was like that, my second (30 year marriage) I jump his bones everytime I get ready and he likes that. So speak to her and tell her what you want and need from her. Good luck and good sex.
2006-09-10 01:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in my marriage. There are times when my husband wants to have sex but I'm just stressed out and not in the mood or vice versa but for us it's about 50/50.
2006-09-10 01:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand you correctly you are married and you have to always ask for sex and she never asks you for sex and you want to know if all women are like this?? Well the answer is no not all women are like this - maybe she has a low sex drive or maybe she just doesnt desire you or the way you do it - ask her what she wants maybe your just not forfilling her desiers.
2006-09-10 01:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Kazz♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she would like to ask you but she doesn't know when the right time to ask you is. She might be thinking " What if he doesn't want me right now?" She doesn't want to feel rejected. So I think you should talk to her and explain when it is okay to ask for sex.
2006-09-10 03:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by catmenacestop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you mean sex, oh I'm just getting tired from asking my husband to have sex for two month now, there are so many exuses for that, so I might just go and play with myself...
2006-09-10 01:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by happydial 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, we're not. Some woman don't have high sex drives. Some have inhibitions about it. Have you told her you would like for her to initiate it sometimes?
2006-09-10 01:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by terri w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my husband and I have equal sex drives, it's sex time all the time i our house. We initiate sex equally.
2006-09-10 02:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i am a women that is married that always wants sex and i am always trying to get sex. maybe she is afraid to ask you or attempt to get you to have sex with her
2006-09-10 01:19:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no ..all women r not the same...maybe she doesn't like the way u r doing it!!!!
2006-09-10 01:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put her in good mood, and sure she will get on her knees and beg u :))
2006-09-10 01:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋