your relationships with other people? and is it more important than anything else? why do people do that thing where a friend tells them something and then they'll go to another friend 'guess what so-and-so told me but dont tell anyone i told you'?
2006-09-10 01:13:21 · 12 answers · asked by heydoiknowyou 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Without trust there can't be a true friendship or relationship. Maybe you should rethink being friends with some of these gossipers. All that kind of stuff will do is hurt you or others. Hang out with the few people you know you can trust and consider the others as aquaintances. Don"t get mixed up in gossip.
2006-09-10 01:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what's wrong with most people, we live in an era where gossip and intrigue sells, and interests most people...it can be a lame excuse for our unexciting life, or some people could not contain the excitement of knowing something and they just have to tell.. a lot of people are ruined because of that, one wrong interpretation wouldlead to another.. it also reflects the fact that there are a lot of fake friendships and as a consequence, familiarity breeds contempt.
2006-09-10 01:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by OnionSkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is important in all relationships. One thing to learn though is, if you have a secret keep it to yourself because once you reveal it, it's not a secret anymore.
You'll always find tittle tatlers - they're great if you want to spread any information and you don't have the time - laugh
2006-09-13 01:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think almost everyone is untrustworthy in this kind of a situation.....unfortunately, we all love to gossip. Having said that, I think we all probably have at least 1 or 2 people who we trust 100% without question. It is just a matter of us finding out who they are! And hopefully not finding out the hard way.
2006-09-10 01:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust? It is relative. I see it as a means by which a friend off-loads her/his stress on you. If you cannot take it make it clear. I don't think there's 100% trust. Always trust with care. Who says your friends don't have their own friends, or you will be your friend their only friend forever? That is selfish. Trust no one. Be confident yourself.
2006-09-10 01:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by amiable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human nature I guess we are all capable of gossipping even men. Next time you won't be trusting that friend again will you?we all live and learn that is also human nature.
2006-09-10 01:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
who knows.sometimes it is concern, sometimes it is becuase they knwo the other perosn k nows somthing of rlevance about issue, other because people can't help themselves.
In nrelationships it is hard when they beg you to trust them, knowing how badly hurt you have been before, only to be the one that screws you the most.
All aprt of life, we all have to move on, and not let it get us down.
WE have all done it, and had it done to
2006-09-10 01:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends cz it doesnt affect my relatioship with my best friends because i trust them..but i dont tell no one else coz soon enough it will be traveling round the school
2006-09-10 01:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust resonates through all human relationships.Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
2006-09-10 01:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"live and learn" theres very little people that can be trusted, and if you have a friend whom you think u can trust, be weary but keep them close ........ there aint many nice people left!
2006-09-10 01:55:08 · answer #10 · answered by polly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋