Look, there is a guy that likes me and everytime we meet we make out,talk, hug.It is like a kind of routine for me.When I am not with him I feel like I miss him, but when I go out with him after half an hour with him, I am bored.What the hell is wrong with me?I don't know if I like him as he do, but I don't want to stop this.I really don't know what to do?!
2006-09-09 23:27:34 · 19 answers · asked by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think u might just be lonely,and this guy kind of fills the void. When you're thinking about him I think it's because he's the only guy in your life. I say keep hanging out w/ him if it's fun, (as long as you don't lead him on), until the right person for u comes along. When he does u will definitely know it. There will b know doubts in the way u feel about him, and the way he treats u. So cheer up, and don't despair. Love seems to happen when u least expect it.
2006-09-09 23:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you and him. It's just that, he's not your type you're looking for. From what you say, i feel both of you have ntg in common. But, it can improve.
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. and no rush. Boys look at 2 things, prettiness and good personality. You know what pretty is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then maybe there's still a chance u can improve. All the best to u.
2006-09-10 00:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just wanting the intimate side of the relationship .. if you had true feelings then you wouldn't be bored.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-09 23:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to take this lightly, but have you considered maybe you have ADD? People with ADD tend to get bored of situations rather quickly and want to move on, while at other times, the same situation sounds great. I run into the same problems and wonder myself sometimes if I have ADD...
Then again, so many people are misdiagnosed with everything under the sun...
2006-09-09 23:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by iswd1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your relationship with him is mostly just physical. You make out, hug and when your not with him, you miss him. But when you are with him you get bored because you don't really enjoy his company, he's just attractive to you. That's how I understood it. I had the similar situation. I would suggest you to find someone you really like AND enjoy spending time with. Maybe he likes you and you will hurt his feelings if you continue doing this.
Good luck!
2006-09-09 23:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've gotten comfortable with the situation, alast.. its boring to you... Spice it up.. change the routine... do something have fun... and if your still bored stop seeing him. Better to upset him a little now than hurt him bad in the long run. Good Luck!
2006-09-09 23:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by ashley65@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm go on 4 a little longer maybe the subject he talks about is boring next time maybe u can start the conversation on something u like or is interested in..hope this helps
2006-09-09 23:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by *Hearty Laugh* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out if he likes u, if he does go ahead and ask him out, things will change once u guys r together... but u might get bored in a week or two ... i really can't help u there hun.. good luck!
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2006-09-09 23:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be confusing being bored with being comfortable together... Try going to a new place together or share a new adventure together and see how you feel... You may just be totally relaxed and at ease when you are with him... and not bored...
2006-09-09 23:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like the attention, not the guy. Free yourself now and save yourself time and frustration. You'll soon find that you wasted time on him when you could have spending that valuable time by yourself or dating someone you actually do like.
2006-09-09 23:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋