There are some times where I get extremely angry ! and shout back which I later regret..what can I do to clam me down when some one shouts at me? I try to leave and stay in my bedroom but thats no use..either they call me up and yell or come to my room and yell.
2006-09-09 23:13:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Normally I keep silent because if I yell back it would increase the tension... I just go to my bedroom and even they come to yell at me again I keep silent... so they finally give up.
Sometimes I talk with quiet and calm tune while they are shouting...so they do the same later.
It is just a practice... It would work out if you do it well.
2006-09-09 23:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until all the yelling stops... then talk to them when everyone has released some steam. It's natural to either be defensive or submissive, your defensive hense you defend yourself by arguing back. If your parents track you down then obviously they're level of maturity isn't functioning.
2006-09-09 23:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by EcXeSSive ConSUmptiON 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advise is: Try to control your temper. Only when you are able to keep your cool, that you can gain the respect of those who lose their temper at you. It takes maturity to reach that level.
When we lose our cool, we tend to be irrational and cannot discuss anything logically. Right? Once we give in to our emotions, we will appear cish to the others.
When you about to blow, tell the others calmly that you are going out for a walk. You will only discuss things when everyone is cool.
Bet you your relationship will improve and your life will be happier after this! Contact me direct at: geokteck@gmail.com if you need further help.
2006-09-10 00:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have a motto in our house, im always right & your never wrong. We have all got 2 get through the day our own way. You choose 2 be angry, just choose not 2 be.
2006-09-09 23:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by grannygrancarrol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calmly say that right now you are upset and need some time to yourself. To please respect you on that .. In addition talk to them before hand that when your upset that you need that moment and when you are calmer you are free to talk about it.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-09 23:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy.. Just think of those things as an advice to become a better you.. As much as possible, please don't get angry with any family member and with anybody as well..
2006-09-09 23:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well whoever it is that has a go at you then try and ask him/her to sit and talk instead of a shouting match that should rsolve things quicker. try it it works.
2006-09-09 23:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by TRACY M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i used to punch and kick holes in the doors in my parents house but im a little calmer now lol
2006-09-09 23:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i breath and get a photo of them and cover the head , cruel but helps.lol
2006-09-09 23:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by *Hearty Laugh* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore the matter and focus myself on something else.......
2006-09-10 01:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by SATJ12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋