Obviously if she feels pain you should stop. And LUBE! LOTS AND LOTS AND LOTS OF LUBE!
2006-09-09 23:10:45
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answered by doc 6
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Big hug to you for caring THAT much to ask.
I hope she is willing because she needs to be the one in total control of this. It's her pain to she must how fast it is. I recommend that she 'practice' with the thin but* plug (using lube always) to get her voluntary muscles use to being relaxed. Then when you guys do it, the next thing is for her to let you get past the involuntary sphincter muscle. That will be the pain part. She will be the one to guide you when to pause and when to start up. It also helps if in her mind, she keeps telling herself to relax. really relax. You have to start this process knowing that it will not be remotely like sex. You can not have the control and the need to pump will not be yours (yet). She will guide you when to pause then continue (if not stop altogether if she chooses but she will be missing out) Then when you have worked yourself 'all the way in' then after a pump or two with an OK from her that there is no more pain, you can start pumping away. The place there everyone gets 'stuck' is that involuntary muscle... and pumping and forcing... can't be done. She has to guide you as to where her pain threshold is. You can't pass that point, she has to guide you thru it. Best of luck! Oh, and if you do plan to do it again, the next time will be easier but if you wait a few weeks, ever... then you have to start over the muscle will have completely retightened again.
2006-09-09 23:25:06
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answered by Valeria 4
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Like they say once you fall off a bike, you gotta come again on,,,,,similar way with relationships, besides the very undeniable reality that you've had a relationship that ended badly, the right thanks to get over that's to come again on that "motorbike",,you're one up on maximum eleventh graders, a minimum of you've the adventure of a relationship and know what it truly is about and what to assume,,,,yet you do not might want to manage a woman that some pal says likes you except you're in contact, in the different case take a even as, in case you've not met the right female then do not rush ,,,who says you basically were given to have a female friend, there is not any longer something incorrect with being loose,,,,,,
2016-11-25 23:16:26
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answered by Anonymous
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All the feeling is around the top, so dont drive deep at first, let her relax, if you do it right and if your careful you wont hurt her, but if you do, then stop.
Its better to take your time then to drive her off it completly,
2006-09-09 23:25:34
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answered by sporty_chick 3
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Go to www.analsexyes.com and learn. You won't have anal sex with your girlfriend until you learn not to hurt her. You don't want to put her off for life - be patient and learn.
2006-09-09 23:23:29
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answered by Scabius Fretful 5
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You need kY jelly because you can not just ram it into her rim like you're slapping some bread into the toaster,you have to take your time showly,giving a little bit of yourself at a time if you know what I mean.
2006-09-09 23:14:17
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answered by T.Mack 5
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it should be pleasurable and stop if she feels uncomfortable and so.
you've other chances to do it again. dont frighten here and perserve some for the future. it could be painful...
2006-09-09 23:10:57
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answered by superyoyogirl 3
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Are you stupid? Why would you continue doing ANYTHING that was painful for your girlfriend?
2006-09-09 23:11:49
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answered by Anonymous
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of course u stop n yes use lots n lots of lube..
2006-09-09 23:32:12
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answered by shortiluv 3
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depneds on her request... some gurls likes the pain;)
2006-09-10 21:14:33
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answered by S@D L@Dy 3
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