There is a guy he is 18 and I'm 14. I like him very much and he told me that he likes me very much too. And now he wants mw to bw his girlfriend. But I think that is too fast. Because it was only yesterday when he told me he liked me. And we know each other for about 2 months. He is very good guy and very nice and handsome too. But I have doubts. Do you think he is too old or not? And PLEASE answer me what do you think I should do...?
2006-09-09 22:55:00 · 22 answers · asked by Ana G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your ages are not that far range.. you should let him court you for you to be able to let him know more.. if he really loves you, he'll do that and he'll let you know more alot about him.. Do not be bothered with your age limit.. There's nothing wrong with that..
Goodluck and take care..
2006-09-09 22:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I have to think what I would have thought when I was 18 if I'd been dealing with a girl like you. I would have thought "she's 14, so she's probably a virgin. I'd get to be her first, she's probably tight as a drum, & she's already got a crush on me so it probably won't take much for me to seduce her. More than likely, I probably can get by with this & not have to worry about getting arrested or anything." I know it may sound crude, but honestly, when I was 18, all I would have been thinking about would have been how soon I could get a girl to take off her panties for me. So, unless you are willing to risk getting hurt & to give in to his urges, I would say he's too old for you. Also, most likely, if you two did have sex, it would be illegal, & your parents could press charges on this guy for statutory rape even if you didn't want them to do so. If that's the case, I would say you should definitely get their permission first, & date within their rules if they agree to it. If they do, then your new boyfriend would have to respect their rules, or they could still potentially get him arrested. The links below should help you know what the ages of consent are in your area.
2006-09-10 06:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is way too old for you. I wonder what kind of man looks for a child as a girlfriend. It's obvious girls his own age are not interested in him. You are both in different times of your lives and have nothing in common. Go out with a high school guy, sophmore, junior or senior. Also, him being 18 will expect certain things from you as he is an adult. If you have doubts then go with your gut instinct. There is a reason why you have doubts. Never go against what your gut tells you.
2006-09-10 05:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by Y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy is too old to be dating a 14 year old. When a guy of this age approaches you, you have to ask why. He is definitely moving way to fast. I would simply say, you are a nice guy, but I do not date adults. Stay within your own peer group and work on building friendships. The relationships will come later, when are mature enough to handle them.
2006-09-10 06:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) He is a pedophile. Any person over 18 should more than know better to have interests in someone who is 14 years old.
2) I don't know much about you, but you're still a child, like it or not. You do not have the capacity to fully comprehend what it is you would be getting yourself into by dating an adult. It would be one of the biggest mistakes you could make.
Personally, and this coming from a parents point of view, you should talk to your parents about him. I am sure you'll just blow this off like most kids tend to blow off advice these days, but this guy should be talked to by an adult, and told to stay away from you or face being reported to the police.
Pedophiles are a danger to all kids, especially ones your age because you are beginning to seriously be attracted to people his age and do not know better.
Take my advice and stay away from him if nothing else.
2006-09-10 05:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by iswd1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to be fatherly - but that guy is in an entirely different mindset than cute little Jimmy in the same class as you.
Carry on a healthy relationship with Mr. 18 - but think logically about what you're doing. Are your parents going to approve of what you might do with that guy?
If you were a little older; I wouldn't see where an age gap would make a difference, but you're hardly into your teens whereas that guy is in the brunt of his manhood. Like I said: not to be fatherly, but you might want to turn your romantic attentions elsewhere.
Be his friend - but leave the relationship platonic.
|[Nix: answering your questions, one bottle of bourbon at a time.]|
2006-09-10 05:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Nix . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience when I was fifteen I got involved with a older man and to this day 15yrs later I still regret it because all they want is one thing, I got only one good thing from him and that was a son and that is the last thing you want especially at the age of 14, the older guys will tell you what you want to hear because they want them young cuz when your young your easier to control so my advise to you is don't do it you'll regret it later. Hope you make the right choice and don't throw your life away for a man. Not to mention he will go to jail becuz you are so young
2006-09-10 06:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by dnicebnice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your choice but if hes 18 and your 14 u might wanna think about whats wrong with him that he would have 2 go 4 some 1 so young instead of closer 2 his own age
2006-09-10 05:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear sir/maim i am not getting the word like mw bw what does mean by this plese post clear question on yahoo.
" And now he wants mw to bw his girlfriend. "
2006-09-10 05:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by Arun M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can and will goto jail if he start a relatonship with you
I think you should do a little investigation and find out if you re the first 14 years old he try to date
and since you are unconfortable withthe idea why don't you ask him if he can wait until you are more mature
their is a good
I like to date you too but can you come to my home and ask my parents for permission to take me out
that should tell you where he stands
2006-09-10 06:11:10 · answer #10 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by your concern i think you are matured enough to think about the question, you are hesitant i feel. do take care and find out about him and his wants from you, what he is looking in you. Maybe he has some ulterior motives for you or maybe he is really in love with you. Judge with your own Conscious be confirm and then commit your self to any relation with him.
2006-09-10 06:03:40 · answer #11 · answered by milas K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋