im a 21 year old who enjoys makeing my man happy but all the time im not into it all the time yes it feels good but somethimes i just dont want it is this a bad thing please be honest
2006-09-09 22:48:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
There is nothing wrong with you for not being interested in sex all the time. Life is about ups and downs. I think there might be a bit a problem if you are unable to communicate about it tho. Stand up for yourself and your needs. good luck
2006-09-09 23:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by STEPHEEDEE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 19 years old and my girlfriend just unveiled to me that sometimes she doesn't feel the need to make me happy such as a kiss, hug every once in awhile, but I know she loves me, unless we are talking about sex here I think my answer is " Do whatever you feel comfortable with and he should understand." Heck take this answer if you are implying to sex too!
2006-09-13 02:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by E.F. Landeros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not a bad thing. I'm sure there are times when HE doesn't want it either. You two should communicate and ask each other if you're "in the mood". It's okay not to do it all the time.
2006-09-10 05:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by morningstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is bad, somtimes people don't feel like something but do it anyway, it is normal. Just make sure you enjoy the times when you into it.
2006-09-10 05:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by Pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alcohol and drugs in general make people needy for attention.
start meditating, work out. Ask you partner to join you.
The secret to a good or well developed (tantric) sexuality is modesty.
Look into your sexuality with a spiritual eye.
taoist secrets of the male sexuality
taoist secrets to female sexuality by mantak chia.
homo sapiens are the only mamals who have sex for fun...
If you look into tantric sex you will unite the divine male and female energy.
2006-09-10 05:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by franslaimbock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its a bad thing..You should be able to tell him that you dont feel like it before he pounces!
2006-09-10 05:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let him have his way with you all the time. You be the boss!!
2006-09-10 05:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's perfectly normal. It's your body.
2006-09-10 05:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by tina m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋