How do i tell my mum ive got a girlfriend, i normally dont tell her anything as i dont have a good relationship with her, ive had like 6 other girlfriends and she has only knew about 1 of them because she found out somehow. i just got with this girl like 3 days ago, and my mum seems to be being alright with me so i think im gonna tell her i jus dunno how :S sounds wierd but.........
2006-09-09 22:47:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with her. Moms are pretty nuts about watching their little boys grow up into men.
Just put her thoughts at ease by assuring her that you have no stupid intentions, and that you're just casually dating the girl.
2006-09-09 22:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by Nix . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You tell her honestly and at the same time tell her that she's just a friend and that you will not be doing anything foolish with her. (Hope that's the case). All mothers do not want their children to get into trouble and into situations they are not ready to handle.
So if there's anything that you feel uncomfortable to let your mum know, you are definitely feeling guilty about those actions.
By telling your mum, you will develop her trust in you. You need to show her that you are maturing by behave so. Email me direct if you need further help.
2006-09-09 23:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her, i don't have a mum but this is what i've kinda gathered from friends mothers.
They all seem to think they're sons are just into it for the sexual aspects, just tell yiour mum you really like her, respect her and you think she is a really nice person. Maybe allowing your mum to meet her could help your relationship with her and help dampen any future dramas?
2006-09-09 22:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by EcXeSSive ConSUmptiON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the easiest way would be just to say it straight out in a nonchalant way. Meaning just say it and dont make it sound like she is supposed to be shocked. Just tell her like you are talking about somethin normal.
I dont ever tell my mom til ive been with the person a while. I dont want to be embarassed u know like finding out the person is dumb or a jerk after I already introduced him. you know? but if its nothin big then its cool just tell her in a way that wont put pressure on her to say something serious.
2006-09-09 22:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by sarah20xoxoyeps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight up and tell her your seeing someone when you're ready to. And then just ask her if it's ok if you bring down your girlfriend for them to met. Sounds kinda uncomfortable but trust me, if your mom gets to know this girl she'll be comfortable in the fact that you have met a nice girl and she won't be stressed, angry, or worried about it anymore. :-)
2006-09-09 23:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just introduce your gf to your mom .. or have bring it up with a conversation with her.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-09 22:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just tell her: Mum I have a girlfriend and I like her very very much. And I'm sure she will understand you!!!
2006-09-09 22:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by Ana G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off tell her u have a boyfreind. After she gets up off the floor tell her u were joking and let her know about girlfreind, she'll luv her
2006-09-09 23:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by aussiemongrel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are old enough to date she should be happy that you have a girlfriend and you then have a friend you can be with and enjoy some good times...she should be happy for you....
2006-09-09 22:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her. she will get closer to you with this.
2006-09-09 23:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋