My gf is a virgin all around, shes never kissed or made out or anything and I want to make her frist time something she can look back on a smile. So how can I make it as special as I can? What should I do? thanks for the answers.
2006-09-09 22:39:34 · 11 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok its not my frist time its far from being my frist time.
2006-09-09 22:50:21 · update #1
dont take her to the movies take her some where that she will love a $$$$ restront
2006-09-09 22:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judy is right - the best thing you can do is nothing.
Not to sound like a priest or anything - but whether you realize it or not, accidents happen. I have no clue how old you are - but from reading your question, I'm going to assume you are in your teens.
You don't want a nine month time bomb - and unless you're planning to marry this girl, you best course of action would be to leave her the Hell alone. More than likely, her first time will be a regret - and that will inevitably overshadow anything you could have done with or to her.
2006-09-10 05:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by Nix . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you ,, is this your first time,, if its not youre just being a playa and your gf should deserve this also being your first time,, Use a condom,,, Make sure you give her that luxury,,, as far as where to go,, i dont know ,,, youre the one whos w/ her you should know,,, her likes and dislikes,,,, make sure though if you for sure go "all the way" that you do it slow and sensual.. it will hurt her if you do it to hard or fast,,, also do it good , but dont give it your all,, do it about 75 % good, enough to get her aroused but not put her over the top,,,, that way she'll be left yearning for more,, then the next time you can go a little more,, and each time step it up a notch,, until you finally feel comfortable shes ready then do it like a champ and send her over the top,, you wont believe your results,, and niether will she,,, then she'll be yours !! givem what they want,, but just not right away !!!!
2006-09-10 05:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by John C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time. Don't rush. She's probably very nervous. Go slow, and don't take it personally if she backs off and asks you to stop. Coax her. Wine and dine her. Use a LOT of foreplay. Touch her in those special erogenous zones. Make her first time all about her pleasure. Treat her gently, listen to her.
Good luck.
2006-09-10 05:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by ravenna_wing1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is going to say this, be gentle. No freaky stuff just make sweet love to her. Try candles and soft music. Take it real slow. Compliment her on her body, kiss her lips a lot. Tell her you love her and that she is special to you.
2006-09-10 05:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by adrian p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really nice of you...aww it would be nice to have rose petals all over the bed, dim lights and this may sound a lil stupid, but a nice picnic on the floor, a lil wine on ice...soft music...
if some one did that for me for my first time, i would have a few tears of happiness to shed......
good luck xx
2006-09-10 05:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by loopy lass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really?? Well, that's for you to find out.. think of a nice move to do to inorder for your gf to have good time and will not forget you..
2006-09-10 05:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Slaphappy. If you have a name like that why are you asking for help?
2006-09-10 05:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by fullofsunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just promise her that you would be with her for the rest of her life!
2006-09-10 05:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a good time
and laugh it off
and the obvious
ask her what she expects / wants it to be
2006-09-10 20:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by efrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋