and than always giving you orders like shes your mother or something?
2006-09-09 22:34:54 · 8 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
looking at the glass half-filled...
your sis actually can dun give a damn about your life, who u're with. as a matter of fact, having being 19, your sis should be just more than happy to lead her own adult-life.
but hey, she has been there (at 16) and seen what you're seeing/ or maybe be seeing. she would have seen it alone before, bearing all loneliness (& happiness) - which could be a lousy way to grow up with.
if you need 'freedom', ask politely. cos it's not meant to be taken for granted. what you ask for politely will gain you the trust and confident that you're matured enough to be able to take care of yourself . Rdgs, s.6.
2006-09-09 22:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by s6 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your sister cares for you, talk to her and ask what she would like to do. Its maybe too early but I think you both can talk about wanting company but you should take it slow and step by step.
Perhaps her giving orders is that someone isn't listening. You got a lot of growing up to do listen to your Elders, families you don't know what you miss when they're not there for you at a time of support. It might be too late to turn back.
Love your sister....
Peace to All
2006-09-10 05:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by Carmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's most probably concerned for you. As your elder sister, she is trying to guide you and help you get out of trouble. Maybe her approach is making her appear to be a nosey and bossy sister to you. However, look on the bright side. She's on your side.
Reflect on what she has asked you to do. Have you got into trouble for listening to her? Doesn't she need to sacrifice her time to be with you? Time that she could spend doing her own things? Has she bothered you when your mother si around?
Listen to her. She cares for you!
2006-09-10 06:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm she's 19 ,she should understand by now its not a very nice thing to spy on you and give orders and stuff.
Just tell her that your a grown up too and can take care of yourself .
2006-09-10 06:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shes older than you. In my family when someone is your senior and they tell you to do something you do it.
2006-09-10 05:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds kinda weird ,she needs to get her own life.Doesn't she have friends and places to go?
2006-09-10 05:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she has no life n shes bored n has nuthing better to do then to bother u
2006-09-10 06:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by shortiluv 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm, sounds like you have a nosy busy body interested in your sex life.
2006-09-10 05:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋