I had a date with this guy that I've been dating for several months. He has not talked about commitment of any kind and I'm sure he's dating other girls. I decided to blow him off. He called three times and left a message and I blow him off. He still doesn't get it. What else can I do to get him to commit?
2006-09-09 22:21:21 · 12 answers · asked by Gail F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start dating other guys.
2006-09-10 18:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've said this before & I'll probably say it again & again. Ladies, don't play games! We're men! It isn't in our nature to be able to pick up on hints like you do! In all seriousness, if I were in his place, I would probably think from your actions, you were involved with someone else & had lost interest in me, so I'd just move on & quit calling. I personally hate games. I feel if a woman can't be honest & open with me, I can't build a future with her anyway. Honestly, if you want to talk commitment, bring it up yourself instead of playing these juvenile games. The best you can hope for is that he gets worried that you're hurt or dead because you didn't return his calls, & then that fear will turn to rage when he finds out you were merely playing him for a fool. So, the one thing you should do to try to get a commitment from him is bring it up, & point blank ask him if he'd like to see you exclusively. Best of luck.
2006-09-10 05:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn off whatever daytime TV show you were watching when you got the idea of ignoring him and just go tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels. That's the only way you will know. If he's ready to commit he will, if not, move on and find someone who will commit.
2006-09-10 05:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him if he doesnt then its over and thats how serious you are about it that your even willing to say goodbye because of it!!Just tell him and be honest.Your doing the right thing he isnt giving you what you want so your moving on heck yeaaaaaaaaa a smart chic in da house!!!!!!!Finally a girl on here with some smarts .I wish ya the best and good luck, its his loss
2006-09-10 05:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust him - you don't ask him - he just call you.
WHY YOU WANT COMMIT HIM - did you commit him.
If you want find out who he is just date him ones every two weeks if he calls you.
2006-09-10 05:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of playing games tell him what you want. I'm sure you will find out your answer right away.
2006-09-10 05:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about asking him these questions? He is the only one who knows the answers ur looking for...
2006-09-10 05:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by mrsboonie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. You are just a booty call.
2006-09-10 05:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by drkhrse099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mens who r not exactly men are like that
2006-09-10 05:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, dump him, if he don't understand now, he won't forever unless he falls for u.....move on n' meet someone better....
2006-09-10 05:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋