We were living in 2 differenct countries at the beginning and my man has recently moved and got a job where I live, only 2 hours from my town. So it is still long distance for me as we do not see eachother more often than before (every 3-4 weeks). Sometimes days go by without communications between us. I know he loves me, but he is so committed to his job and spends very little time with me. I miss him terribly and when I complain he tells me, this is the best he can do right now. I feel I should be more patient with him on the long run, but on daily bases I miss him so much, it feels unberable for me anymore. I can not immagine my life with anyone else, but I am not sure how much longer I can keep up with this set up? We have talked about this and several times, but can not seems to find a conforting enough solution for me. Anyone has any good suggestions? Thanks in advance.
2006-09-09 22:18:43 · 7 answers · asked by cbibunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow! I am not the long distant type. I would need to be able to see my guy. I would want him available to me.
But hey, what is really the problem? You were able to tolerate him away when he was living in the other country.? Now you have him only 2 hrs. away. (Which, why didn't he move in the same town as you/)
I would break up. And go with this," Set him free, if he comes back it was meant to be." I know its corny but it damn works great.
2006-09-09 22:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by fullofsunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, anyway, you never meet in person, right? In the start, you'l miss him but as days go by, you'l learn not missing him anymore. Who knows? you'l find the right guy in the future who is more understanding to you, You will find and meet someone new who will love you better and not for long distance affair only. I hope that you are not fool enought and never think that only one guy living in this world? Are you stupid, crazy idiot girl? Wake up if you're daydreaming....
2006-09-10 05:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hear that long distance relationships don't work out for a reason, you cannot build and maintain a healthy relationship with distance. Move on and find someone where you are.
2006-09-10 05:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by live2ride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered moving closer to him? This would be a great compromise since he has also made a move to be closer to you. This would definitely give you an opportunity to actually be with him and do things with him so that your relationship can actually grow otherwise it will become stagnant and die.
2006-09-10 05:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE DOESN'T GIVE A CRAP.
I hate this I hate men and I hate everything about them. You lived apart so he screwed ppl behind your back. Whether he did it it with them IRL or not he was fantasizing about it. It made him bitter it made him hate you. He resents you don't you see it.
Don'tmiss him, this slime this baggage for the love of god don'tmiss this petty jerk.
2006-09-10 05:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you need more of his time, for you.
If he can't give it, you're moving on to find someone
who has time for you.
Life is too short.
2006-09-10 05:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him his physical absense is nothing.
2006-09-10 05:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋