People say I have a really sweet personality and that I'm fun to be around, but nobody talks to me anymore...I really like this guy...and he lives like all the way across the country though and I want to fly him out here but I am afraid of what might/might not happen...I know life is about taking risks but I don't want to lose him....a little advice, porfavor...especially from guys...?
2006-09-09 22:00:47 · 7 answers · asked by iLoveHugs 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, girl - I'll give it to you straight.
Go with your gut feeling. Chances are, it's right. 10% of the human genome is unmapped - and a part of that might be a sense that none of us can begin to describe and understand.
There are more guys out there than that one. Emotional attachment is hard from a distance - and that's definately not helping to ease the queasy feeling in your stomach.
Life is about taking risks - but taking intelligent risks is a lot better than making all around stupid decisions. Go with your gut feeling - but go about things intelligently, whenever you make a decision.
|[ Nix: answering your questions, one bottle of bourbon at a time. ]|
2006-09-09 22:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Nix . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have to run away?
All you need do is be friends with him, telling him that you do not wish to be committed yet until you are very certain.
Then, treat him like a friend, like all others. In the meantime, make as many friends as possible, and be sincere and honest.
When you more friends, the right one will appear and you will then be more sure of yourself. Fear of failed relationships is making you behave the way you do. So the only way is for you to commit to closer relationship later on, when you are older.
It certainly is not true that nobody will speak to you. As long as you don't look inward and be interested in others, people will talk to you.
2006-09-09 22:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont get "drinks" sent 2 ya cause ur "intimidating". I had 2 learn that. I thought... I'm beautiful....the most here... so "why" am I the only 1 thaT'S BEING DRIVEN home by taxi or the bartender? if they think they dont have a chance then they wont waste their $$$
2006-09-09 22:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by CHRISTIAN L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. I think you need to look at other things cause something else is a problem not this guy you want to fly out to you.
2006-09-09 22:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you and he is worthy of one of your sweet hugs, then he won't need you to fly him anywhere. He'll find his way to you. Get a hobby. Don't be desperate. Calling him and talking to him and telling him how you feel is not desperation.
2006-09-09 22:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by Hielodrive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you will lose him anyway, why not make your play and see what happens. There is nothing to lose if you think you have lost it already. Good luck, Johnno
2006-09-09 22:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by johnno K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send me email...
2006-09-09 22:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by the withness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋