I’m A male and just turned 18 and never been in love. I find it hard to find that special some one. I never really kissed a girl that I had deep felling for. NEVER!! and I just got dumped and I feel like killing my self because times running out? Every body falling in love around me accept me. what should I do???? I don’t have that much experience with females because I couldn’t talk to girls until I was 16.i feel like its getting harder and harder every day. what should I do?????
2006-09-09 21:42:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well what good will it do if you kill yourself? some girl might read this and feel bad for you. Why do you feel bad if you dont have a girlfriend? Just wait for the right person to come along. Its not something planned. Stuff like this just happens. In the meantime, try to boost you confidence level. Girls like guys who feels good about themselves...so there...:)
2006-09-09 21:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, calm down. Death isn't a solution. You don't want to die a lonely failure. Start taking advice from people on how you could look more handsome and presentable to females. Next get an interesting hobby and use it to feel good about yourself. Now put yourself out there by joining some dating sites and start going on dates. If you don't have a car then save money and pay for your own driving lessons and get a car. Learn to keep your mouth shut with women. They are very confrontational characters. If you say something to them you better know what you're saying, and how you can back yourself out of it if needed. Good luck pal.
2006-09-09 21:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Spirit-X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only a young man, love does not come that easily to everyone and it takes time. Do not think about suicide, think about the positive things in life. Also dont be too picky on the type of girl that you want to be with. If need be have a few one night stands, but make sure you use protection.
2006-09-09 21:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first relationship was when I was
TWENTY-ONE years old. After that, I have been with other girls. Later, we got back together and now were engaged to get married. I hope this helps. Also, I won't get into it but that girlfriend had a few real bad situations and tried to kill herself. A couple of her organs had been restored and she takes forty-three pills everyday. The doctors watch over her like a hawk and many think she's insane. So I hope that helps too. Suicide is stupidity! Good things comes to those who wait! Trust me!
2006-09-09 21:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by Brennus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello James
I just understand your situation...I mean last year (now I am 19) I was always asking myself these questions. Why I am the only one with no one??! I mean it's not fair I see all my friends with their bf and loved ones while I am always by myself...then again I know I am not ugly or dumb. I can handle great conversation and entertain and everything...but why was no one intersted in me? The answer is life. It just doesn't happen like that. You'll have to be patient...sometimes you would like to kill yourself (but I hope you'll never act on it...coz then you'd miss out a lot of things but it would be too late). But it'll happen only if you believe you are worth it. Try hanging out with people and make new friends and have new activities. You just have to open up and try to make friends not gf immediately. Right now after all these eyars of self doubt I am finally with someone who was worth the wait. Just be patient and stay positive.
Take care and lots of luck ;)
2006-09-09 21:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by anesziere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax man sheesh. I know how you feel to a point. 18 means you still have years ahead of you. You need to see a doc about getting your head screwed on right. Don't sit there fighting depression all your life. Live your life the way you want and if that someone comes along be ready,
2006-09-09 21:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. Things will get better. You are focusing to much on the negative. Think about the endless "positive" possibilities in the future. Relationships can be difficult but you must learn from them and realize that it isn't the destination that counts but the journey.
2006-09-09 21:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
times running out ,oh my god ,ur 18 not 80 for god sake get a life .
ur life has just started ,and you are far to young to worry about love ,get a job save ur money ,get a driving licence,buy a house ,get some mates go out more ,mix and you will see it int all bad ,there is more to life than having a girl to take all ur money,and piss u about ,do some sports ,go to clases ,u have to make ur own,fun,go clubing,u need friends not girl friends why tie urself down this early ?.
2006-09-09 21:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont kill yourself thats just a waste be strong and youll find the right girl when you love some one and they dump you or you dont work out then youll really feel like dying
2006-09-09 21:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by its just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well firstly, (DO NOT kill yourself)
and start looking for different things in women maybe a start and maybe looking for them in other types of places, like a library for instance.
2006-09-09 21:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋