Now I don't think I'm in love nor am I wondering how old I'll be when I will. What I'm wondering is when I will know. What feelings will I get? What will I do differently from my other girlfriend? Also, please don't answer with "It's an unexplainable" because I've heard it before. Please try to be indepth.
2006-09-09 20:48:34 · 18 answers · asked by Tha-216-SOULJA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry for the missing words and stuff.. I'm tired.=]
2006-09-09 20:49:27 · update #1
You'll hear bells and violins playing and flowers will grow out of your butt...
Just remember it's called FALLING in love and there's more required for a successful relationship than simply loving somone... You can easily fall out of love with someone as you get to know more about them.
2006-09-09 20:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
It is different for every person. It will, most likely, come as a shock. Then, it will be all you can think about. You may question it, but only in the sense of "How can this be happening?" You will feel nervous and elated and terrified...basically, it's every emotion (except hatred and anger) combined.
There is a certain amount of maturity that comes before love. You have to be a "grown up" in the sense that your feelings do not come from lust, but from an enjoyment of conversation. You will be more willing to give up your free time to be with this girlfriend than the last. In fact, you will want to spend ALL your time with her.
It is very difficult to explain. Hope that helped.
2006-09-09 20:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by Esma 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very difficult thing to understand for most people. It sometimes is very difficult to tell what you are feeling, or if you are confusing feelings. Here are some simple tips to see if you are in love.
Steps
Go to a quiet space where you can think.
Close your eyes and imagine that special person's face. Pay attention to how this person's image makes you feel. Do you get butterflies? Do you feel awkward? Do you feel anything?
Keep your eyes closed. Imagine yourself married to this person.
Pay attention to the feelings you get. Then imagine yourself having children with this person. If you get a special feeling that isn't like any other feeling you can describe, you could be in love.
If you are still unsure, the next time you see that person, pay close attention to the feeling in your heart. Love is something different for everyone, but it always comes from the heart.
If you get a chance to touch that person, see if you feel anything.
A spark is how it is commonly referred.
When you love someone, just being around them makes you smile. It gives you a certain energy that you didn't have before.
You may also feel a certain heat, or a flushed feeling. This is
your subconcious telling you this person makes you happy.
Love is something that no one can describe for you and that you can't even describe yourself. When you come at a loss of words
when asked to describe your feelings, it could be love.
Tips
Butterflies in your stomach come and go in crushes. They will always stay if you are in love. They may not always be as strong, but a warm fuzzy feeling in your stomach is like light butterflies.
And you are in love when this feeling stays no matter what.
Dont try to convince yourself you aren't in love. You can fall in love more than once, and if you convince yourself you arent in love, it could be hazardous for future emotions. Keep it simple.
No matter what, define love for yourself. Telling yourself what it means to you can greatly help you.
Warnings
Dont fall too hard too fast. Wait a while and see if it is simply a crush. If the feelings fade, then you know it was a crush. If they stay strong it is love.
Remember to be yourself around the person you may be in love with. Love tends to make people not act like themselves.You want the person you love to love you for you.
2006-09-09 21:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you've fallen in true love, you'll know... Every minitue that they are away you want to be near them again, yet when they are away you are ok with it knowing that they will be with you soon... Here's a true story and its the best way i can describe how i knew i was truely in love...
7 years ago i met Brian, for the first 5 years we were just friends, though we were apart we still wrote each other everyday... Through this we started to fall in love, when we met up again we couldnt for some reason tell each other how we truely felt... We did the whole high school "I love you like a brother/sister" deal knowing that this was not the case...Brian was taken away for another 4 months but when he came home niether one of us could take it any longer, so we told each other... we found out we was having a baby and things turned for the worst.. when i was 7 months preg, we split up. Brian "moved' on and we did talk for along time after the baby was born. Brian and i were split up 10 months before we got back together, but in those ten months i did nothing but htink bout him... wishing i could go home to him but instead i sat at my house waiting and praying that someday he would come around..I "tried" to move on but i couldnt do it, the thought of another man touching me in anyway made me litterally sick to my stomach... THis is when i knew it was true honest to gods love... When you can wait for someone never knowing the out come its gotta be love...
~~Alot of people confuse lust with love.. its easy to do~~ Follow your heart but be cautious, it can play tricks on ya... but again you'll know if it's true love
2006-09-09 21:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mandi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be different for everyone. However, I think that the most obvious sign is when you constantly keep thinking about a girl and wanting to form a relationship and getting closer. Other signs can also be that you keep calling her beautiful and always trying to make her smile in any way possible. Some signs are quite obvious. I think you can figure it all out.
2015-05-10 08:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by Owen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you are in love...
...when there is no place you would rather be than with that person - no one you would rather wake up next to or fall asleep with.
...when everything in life begins to look more beautiful
..when you care more about that person and their feelings than your own often
...when sex becomes this intense, raw experience - where you collide with that person.. in all ways
...when you hate to see them cry and never want to hurt them
....when all you want to do is keep them safe and protect them
...when you know you will be with them forever - regardless of what comes your way - unconditionally
...when you can't describe it - cause for each of us it can be undescribable
...when you never knew you could care about someone that much
...when you can't stop thinking of them or little things that they do
...when their smile brings you happiness
...when you have complete trust,respect, excellent communication and listen to each other with no judgements
...when your hands fit together - just perfectly - when your lips fit perfectly
...when you can each finish each others' sentences or communicate with no words at all
...when you know that person makes you a better person - fulfills you ...completes you
....when you need them and want them and can't - or don't want to live without them
These are the ways you can tell that you are in love.
I do not know what you would do differently than with your other gf since I don't know about that relationship.
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2006-09-09 20:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
you will want to talk to her all the time, give her all of your attention, and get butterflies in your stomach. it's the best feeling in the world! you'll know...just wait and see. true love comes around more than once. you find it when you least expect it too, like when you're at your worst and you dont think you can hang on much longer...but then comes love. its both a life saver and a life destroyer. you'll feel comfortable talk to them and worry about everything they do. you'll want them all for yourself...even the day after! ;) you'll just know, believe me, thats the funny thing about it. and get some sleep =)
2006-09-09 20:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a feeling which is difficult to express. Sometimes u r happy and other time u feel sad.It's sweet yet painful... U never stop dreaming and hoping. Everything seems possible. Anyways u only have to feel it that's all about love.All the best for this wonderful moment
2006-09-09 20:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by Achiever 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Read "Romeo and Juliet". That's falling in love. Also,
"True love is like ghosts, which everybody talks about and few have seen." -Francois De La Rochefoucauld. Hope that helps! *Grins*
2006-09-09 20:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by BonnieBlue85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i''l be honest with u,when u feel in love u get strang feelings like these:
everytime u c ur crush ur heart will beat so fast
u will not stop thinking about him
daydream about him
u will call & hang up
u will impres him
act some 1 else
2006-09-09 21:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋