going out with 3 girls even though your not married, one knows but the other two dont is that a big sin?
2006-09-09 20:33:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not a big sin its okay to date different people as longest your honest with all of them
2006-09-09 20:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you are deceiving them. Are you telling them that they are the only one? Are you acting as though you are serious about them and giving the impression that they are the only one? If you know them well and you think it would upset them if they knew then yes it is wrong. If you have just recently met them and dont know them well enough yet, no its just dating. You should know if it is wrong by looking at each situation and deciding if they would be upset by it or not. If they would be, or if you are lying or pretending then you are wrong and should tell them. Eventually, after seeing each of them for a number of dates, you should tell them all. Be honest and then do what you like without guilt. If you are not telling them because you know they wouldn't sleep with you as it would upset them, you are just being a pig.
2006-09-10 03:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything must be open to have things be good. hide not, fear not. i guess it would depend on the types of relationships you have and want to have with any or all 3 girls. some people do a lot of dating..... but the exclusiveness some how starts to ring in... where that starts.. no one is exactly sure.
2006-09-10 03:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by jay b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Are you banging all of them? Are you claiming that you are steady with each of them when you're not? Or are you merely dating around?
Dating several people at once is not bad, it's good. It's exercising your freedom to get to know people. If you've promised to be committed to each girl, then you're misleading them and that is bad. If you've made no committments, but are still banging them, it could go either way. It still depends on whether you've mislead them to think that dating relationship is exclusive.
If the one girl knows, then you're not wronging her. You don't have to tell the other girls you are dating around, unless you've promised to be exclusive to them. If you have lied to them, then you need to 'fess sup and let them decide if they still want to date you.
2006-09-10 03:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by Wyld Stallyns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a personaly choice most ppl mgit think its wrong but in reallity a bunch of ppl go with different ppl with out them knowing it. To me its wrong but to the next person might be fine
2006-09-10 03:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fair unless you've promised fidelity. No appointments no dissappointments right. Be honest and don't make promises you can't keep, Either that or make a choice. I'd go with the lady who knows. She shares your personality.
Good luck.
2006-09-10 03:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tall Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thr is nothin as sin ok....it is jst wht u think is rt or wrong whn u r goin arnd wid 3 of thm ...at tht tym did u think tht was wrong ? if nt stop being bothered nw unless u r serious for ny1 of thm....n ya m nt 15 yr old so if u r thn leave my advised unheard
2006-09-10 04:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by Nini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they'll find out eventually. fun in the process, things go horrid at the end for sure. enjoy the ride, or just tell the girls you never know, maybe they'll be okay with it. you're better off telling them now before they find out on their own
2006-09-10 03:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to answer this is would be for you to ask yourself would you want this sort of thing done to you. Answer honestly and you'll then know what to do.
2006-09-10 03:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by PisceKween 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a sin but they may think it is and that may cost you all three relationships.
2006-09-10 03:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋