I need stress.Yeah,another crazy people on Yahoo.But seriously,I feel like what I do is useless and there's no meaning to it.And I realise that I'm rusting out.And I think it's cause by my taking safe way out lifestyle and please,I need some way to find stress.And no thanks,I don't want to marry your ex-wives to get it.Please help.
2006-09-09 20:28:37 · 27 answers · asked by Burrbb.. 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Nope,I'm 17 and that's my hormone-raging sis.Thanks anyway everyone.
2006-09-09 20:41:50 · update #1
Spend all your money and borrow as much as you can. The stress will come....
2006-09-09 20:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by CookieMonster 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you just need to be busier with a more purposeful function, not actually more stressed. Why not volunteer somewhere, or a few somewheres? If you think what you do has no meaning, volunteer in a literacy program to teach someone to read, or join Big Brothers and Big Sisters to spend time with a child who has no one else, or offer to deliver food to the homebound or gather food for a food closet, or sign up to help with Habitat for Humanity.
2006-09-10 03:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by Rvn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Scare yourself half-way to death. It usually gets me out of a funk. This is something to try after the 'sane' things prove ineffective. You say this feeling may be caused by taking the safe way out...well then like most people you probably are controlled by your own fear.
Do something that you would normally never do. In my case, this works wonders....it could for you.
Vague I know, but it really depends on the individual what truly frightens them.
2006-09-11 13:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you want this I do not know.... Do not pay your bill for 1 month. send all that money and go a borrow 1,500 with an APR of about 32.% spend it all. By DEC. you'll be losing your mind. you'll be working just to pay bills.
For real, find yourself a hobby, go feed people who have problems. like living on 13k a year with 2 kids and a wife. or a mother who has HIV b/c her husband was playing for both teams. A child with Autism who needs just someone to watch him play.and his parents need a break.
I can on on but I will not You get my point.. find a purpose
2006-09-10 03:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by lynnn30 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it stress you are looking for or a something new in your life that challenges you. Go back to school get a degree or another degree, and demand good grades from yourself, then when finished, start a new career.
Join the peace corp, or do volunteer work in another country.
Define your box and safety zones, know what they are and what makes you comfortable - then step outside of it....slowly at first.
Make a list of things you are afraid of, then tackle one of them.
2006-09-10 03:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want stress? Dare to fall in love, dare to love someone unconditionally....love someone enough that you pray for them more than yourself....then lose them....
I hope that you never have to experience stress and that you find what you are missing in another way...volunteer...go read to children who can't leave their hospital rooms...spend time with an elderly person that has forgotten what it's like to have a visitor.
Don't invite stress into your life, better your life by helping others.
:o)
2006-09-10 03:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK here something for you......work or volunteer for a crises line.
now that's stressful
try to reevaluate your life. where do you always take the easy way out? what prompts that? what are you avoiding when you take the easy way out.
I went threw this not long ago. I now have a new direction in my life, walking a new path.
2006-09-10 03:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by Marg N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me u dont need stress. U just need to be fulfilled in ur life. Go after whatever u dreamed about doing when u were younger
2006-09-13 23:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by Cassandra D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I donnoe whether i'm lesbian,bi or straight?
I've taken brain test in on web and it shows that i hav a balance brain.Am i bi?And if a gal watch porn is gross rite?N it's v hard for a 14 year old.There were 4 guys chasing me and i was flattered but somthing felt strange.I accept one of them as my bf but i don feel anything special.PLZ HELP
DOES THIS LOOK LIKE YOUR HAND WRITING?
it sounds like you have alot of stress and drama going on already
2006-09-10 03:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by Button Face 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want stress in your life, go help the homeless down at a homeless mission and really get involved with them..that should keep you occupied while helping others.
2006-09-10 05:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be grateful that you dont have it you need to thank god that you dont have stress in your life, that your not an alcoholic, that you dont have cancer, that your husband doesnt beat you, that you dont have aids .....the list goes on and on .....i know what you mean by saying needing stress but dont think of it that way .....just kick back and enjoy the fact that your life is stess free and do things like volenteer (i know i spelled that so wrong but hey its late) or i know this sounds cheesy but start reading or going out and doing CRAP and you may have fun
2006-09-10 03:33:18 · answer #11 · answered by Heat seeking missile 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋