well i been dating this girl for 7 years and now its over she said and she just want to usa with her faimly for a week and now shes back in town she says she still loves me and misses me and coming to see me sunday. but also i got to a car crash when she left on her vacation is she coming back to see me because of that? she just got back today and text messege me shes going to the club and i miss her. since she broke up with me all she dose now is going to clubs and party late till 5 am in the moring like she never use to i love her i want to get back togather but i dont know if shes going to want me back. she said shes coming to see me sunday shold i just end it and say i dont miss her and get it over i duno some one help me please!
2006-09-09 19:10:35 · 16 answers · asked by myloveleftme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From i see, you are so in love and cannot for get about her.col down dude, did you ever think what will she see you like that ?what she will think?i know you still cannot put her down after you both broke up. sit down and think seriously, if you both get back together will she love still you ? Dude, you should cool down your self, go for a holiday and have a good time to put down this relationship for a while.
2006-09-09 19:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend their are millions of other fish in the sea so this may in fact be a good thing for you to go through even though it might be ruff. I know when i was in high school i went out with this girl for almost 3 years and then right before our junior year she broke up with me, of course i was devastated and i think i cried and laid around my house for many weeks hoping she would come back to me, but she didn't. So some weeks later i found the woman that is the mother of my children and my best friend for the last ten years. So this could be a fresh start for you.
2006-09-10 02:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by sincity usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seven years from which stage 5th or 6th standard or after graduation or after having a good job? Even the divorce cases (in India) before the completion of 7th year of marriage is not entertained in courts. The logic behind is that this could be enough to understand one another.
Your girl has taken the right step. Now forget her and move on.
2006-09-10 02:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she misses you but there may be any other reason for her behaving that way, coz 7 years relation is difficult to forget soon ..she said she will meet u on sunday just wait for her reaction what she is upto may be then you can decide if she still cares or not..and on the other hand if its a good relation then it will be difficult for her too.. just talk and find whats up..but u do not think too much also coz at the end you will be the one suffering so prepare urself.. and be cool
2006-09-10 02:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. Be the better person. She's probably going through a phase of being a party animal. Why not go to the clubs yourself?? maybe youll meet someone new. If she sees you with another girl, she'll become jealous. So just ignore her, and move on with your life. If you were meant to be, you'll meet up with her later, but for now, just party yourself and ignore her.
good luck.
2006-09-10 02:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like the usa turned her into a hoochie. (that hole has that effect on people). If she really cared about you, she would come see you instead of going out all the time. Does she ever invite you to go anywhere with her? I suggest you try your best to get over her. It will hurt, but it's probably the best thing for you.
2006-09-10 02:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by dead_uchiha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say move on.
If she still cared for you she would be taking you out with her, not going out instead of spending time with you.
If you can't deal with that, then try talking to her. Put all your cards on the table and find out exactly how she feels so you can make a decision.
2006-09-10 02:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Posthuman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seven years is quite a long period,if you could not understand her then you do not deserve to be his partner.What the hell was stopping you people from uniting,you had not tried that is why she was fed up and abandoned you,saying you were nor worth.
2006-09-10 02:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she left you without giving any reasons? and know why she want to come back?
but this is also true past is past be in present and just ignore her. hope this advice help you more than any 'LISTEN TO YOUR HEART'
2006-09-10 05:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by priya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just kiss her on her lips . she will understand
even i had 2 face the same condition when i kissed her everything was fine
2006-09-10 02:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by rahul m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋