okay, I know its lame but I have never had a BF before, and I need advise on what to say when we are talking( we have only been BF/GF for a few hours and I won't see him till monday!).
2006-09-09 18:47:13 · 19 answers · asked by sas94yo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. Talk about stuff you like to do. ask him questions so he can talk about himself.
2006-09-09 18:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not lame, dont worry. Just be how you always are. How did you get to know your friends? Ask him the same questions and act the same. It's more important to hang out so then you have something to talk about together. You'll have the same experiences. CookIE!!!
2006-09-10 01:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by CookieMonster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Dont try to be someone else. Be open and honest with him. Talk about things you have in common. If you dont know what that is, ask! Do you know what his favorite foods are? Or, color? What kind of music does he like? Find out his pet-peeves!
2006-09-10 01:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by Tweetalette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is so much going on in the world! Pick something & talk. But try to enjoy silences as well. And listen to what he talks about and talk about his interests
2006-09-10 01:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by Yes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to be ur self.
share ur interests u know. talk about things that happened to u while he wasn't there.maybe he likes to hear from u.
it's very good to start talking like u talk to a friend. u know,normal things just to get to know each other. no more for a while....
good luck...
2006-09-10 01:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know what he likes bring that up. ask questions, get to know him... not too many though. just talk about everyday things. Were you friends before? if you were just talk like you would if you weren't a couple.
2006-09-10 01:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by beki_lorraine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ever have a conversation with a guy before? it about like that, if he socialy inept you've got to be the one to break the ice. talk about school, teachers, stupid classmates, sports you have in common, assginments, NFL, bad cafeteria food
2006-09-10 01:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Eric B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be normal and be yourself....talk about normal stuff like movies, songs, bands, food, etc... the things you guys like. Have fun dont be someone you are not
2006-09-10 01:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by lil_pinkmartian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
music, movies, friends.
Take a breath and relax. You'll be fine, just talk to him about whatever is on your mind. Sure, it might be awkward at first, but you'll do fine
2006-09-10 01:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by crazy_airforce_guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get to know him! Think about what you like and who you are, and ask him if he has similar or dissimilar tastes... and don't be discouraged if you two are different... talka bout what makes one another tick!
2006-09-10 01:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by kingofmyboxfort 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋