Hello My girlfriend is only 1 week pregnant and we cant raise another child and i would like to convince her and i know its against all we beleive in but its something we must do and she knows it. And if we do have this baby It may have complications because my wife was on the pill and ive heard it has a 85% of being pregnant
2006-09-09 18:44:43 · 17 answers · asked by Chuck Norris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont get an abortion, thats cruel that baby didnt ask you to have unprotected sex. How about adoption for an option. Give a child a life to a couple who is not able to have a child. God would truly bless both of you then.
2006-09-09 18:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by SEXiiNESS_2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without bringing god into it....
In all honesty, it may be best for you. Not her. If she doesn't want to get an abortion, you can't make her. Every girl I've known to get an abortion feels horrible afterward. There are health risks. There are classes and therapy.
I wish I had that problem. But I don't because I can't get pregnant. What I can do is adopt. But if everyone who couldn't raise another baby... if everyone who just "didn't want to be pregnant"... was to have an abortion, people like me would never have the opportunity to be a parent.
2006-09-09 20:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by DrkCrwlr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children are a blessing from God. Beethoven was the seventh child of a poverty stricken family. His mother carried him in spite of what his drunken father wanted. Yet look at the life he had, and the legend he has left, even to this day. No matter what you think, put your trust in the one who is blessing you, and see what character you help develop in the unborn baby (boy/girl) which ever God deemed needed in your life. What is impossible for man, is possible with God, he will make a way out of no way, just have faith, everything will be just fine. Congratulations! If it's a girl I like the name Sara.. What would you do if you gave birth to a future President? Famous foot/basket or baseball player? Actor? Artist? You will never no if you don't give him or her a chance. Maybe it's time you made some changes in your life, sacrifice for the sake of your children. Be the type of father and husband you want your son or daughter to be or have. Work hard, play fair, and love strong, everyday for the rest of your life.
2006-09-09 19:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by A Friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend found out she was pregnant a week ago, that would mean that conception occurred about three weeks ago. At three weeks after conception, your baby's heart is already beating. You do NOT have to abort your baby, and no matter what your circumstances, your baby does not deserve to die. Take a look at:
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Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html
Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help (including referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
Support for Pregnant Teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php
Advice on Telling Parents About a Pregnancy:
http://lifehouse.glorifyjesus.com/questions/pregnancy/tellingparents.html
2006-09-11 12:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything happens for a reason. Trust me when I found out I was pregnant We freaked no way that we could raise a child but we now have a beautiful daughter that we wouldn't trade for the world. You may have hard times we all do but if that is against what you believe is right then maybe you should consider alternatives. I do not know your personal situation but sometimes you have to have blind faith and know that everything will work out just as it should.
2006-09-09 18:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused. You have a girlfriend and a wife pregnant? It is not the babies fault that you are a two-timing jerk. Nothing last forever, how selfish of you to want to make her make a life altering decision based on TODAY. How can you say that 10 years from now things are going to be exactly the same or different--you don't know. So you cant kill a baby based on how things are going for you TODAY. That child's name is already written in Gods book, don't let his death be on your hands.(after all, he is YOUR child)
2006-09-09 18:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by Queen J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant force her but i do believe u have to make a decision together. Respect that she is the one carrying the child and if she feels so badly about it it could cause psychological scars if she aborts. I was going through the same thing 6 months ago...my partner has cancer and is receiving treatment and he has no job. I fell pregnant before he started treatment and we had no idea about it until after he had already started.
He still has no job and i work fulltime and will continue to do so until two weeks before the birth (if im healthy). We did talk about an abortion but it tore us up inside to get rid of bubba. Im now 6 months pregnant and scared as hell but im ready for what life is about to throw at me. I realise these arent the same circumstances but sit down and talk to her about it. Dont make her feel guilty and most of all sit and listen to her.
2006-09-09 18:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know all your options, it is the responsible thing to do in this situation.
Planned Parenthood might have resources, but they might not have looked into abortion alternatives as much as pregnancy care centers who are opposed to abortion.
Find one in your area, for a little bit of a different perspective and resources.
Also it is her decision, and going against your beliefs can be an extremely traumatic thing for her. She might be incredibly hurt by an abortion. Think about her and the baby.
2006-09-10 10:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by ingamit2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why make a innocent baby pay for your guy's mistake by not using protection?? You guy's should had used protection if you didn't want anymore kids if I were you I wouldn't make her abort the baby why not let her have the baby and adopt it out?? Why can't you give the child a chance to live?? Your being really selfish it isn't the baby's fault why let it suffer?? How can you be so damn selfish?? Why not let someone adopt the baby??
2006-09-09 19:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a dumbass. If it's against everything you believe, DON'T DO IT. Even if it wasn't against everything you believe, DON'T DO IT. Let her go through the pregnancy clear through the birth, and in the mean time, be a responsible MAN (yeah, men - remember those?) and arrange for the baby to be given up to an orphanage. After that, quit being a moron and have sex RESPONSIBLY: when you're MARRIED to the woman you'll love FOREVER. People can blast abstinence all they want, but one thing's for sure, it never put anyone in a sorry position like yours. Grow up.
2006-09-09 18:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by Leroy Johnson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋