i want to tell her i like ehr but i dont think she likes me. and all of our friends know. and she probobly already knows. but i want to tell her i love her and not have to have awkward conversations with her.
2006-09-09 18:43:56 · 22 answers · asked by edward g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her how you feel...
2006-09-09 18:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. think of how you would feel if some person you ewre really good friends with came up to you and said they likd you and you didn't have the same feelings. just remember that to love is to risk. Tell her she can tell anyone, you're not desperate, and why you like her. If you can't honestly say those things, then maybe you have the wrong intentions. To aviod akward conversations, if she doesn't have the same feelings say you understand, and none of this ever happened. if she whoas out on you, she wasn't your true friend.
2006-09-10 01:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by faithreleasedjoy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first ask her out on a date. If you believe that she does not like you I assume that you have never dated. You may scare her away by telling her that you love her. If you ask her for a date and she turns you down you know where e you stand. Lasting Love is built on knowing a person and sharing time and personal experience with each other. By dating you give her and yourself a chance to build a relationship.
2006-09-10 01:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Stan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her that you love her, because you don't love her. What you are feeling is lust. Another four letter word that begins with "L". If you want to tell her that you like her that's fine. Just don't do so around all of your friends. You are more than likely right about her already knowing that you like her, because friends have big mouths, especially friends that are girls. Just tell her, but for your own sake don't tell her you love her.
2006-09-10 01:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by deathdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to tell her then do it. Whats holding you back? Love should never have to wait for someone to get the confidence to say it, just say it. If you like her let her know and dont worry about what others have to say. Its your life and only you can live it. Good luck
2006-09-10 01:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, good luck with that. I definitely think that you should talk to her about your feelings. I don't think you should say "Hey, I love you!" I just think you need to talk and find out where her feelings stand. AND PLEASE DO NOT GO THRU FRIENDS!!!! One of my best friends wrote me a letter telling me that he loved me. I am so glad that he did! We did not end up in a relationship but we have a very strong friendship. I am so thankful for him and his willingness to be honest. Things are not awkward between us because we were able to share our feelings.
2006-09-10 01:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by ANGELA L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you like her. The akwardness will still be there after you tell her, but it's a step in right direction. She probably feels the same way. mmm.... COokie
2006-09-10 01:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by CookieMonster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is a hard one, ive been through this..i liked my guy bud but i couldnt tell him how i felt for him,so i ended up hearing rumors about the two of us..so,if you think this girl is worth it,why not tell her besides, if she's a blabber dont tell her at all
2006-09-10 01:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by chikikay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look edward tell her fo 2 reazons she cud be likin u bak n u dont kno but if she ddnt u'l be able to move on coz ur kinda hangin now its gota be face to face dont send a text or wateva its da best way
2006-09-10 02:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER ALREADY!
If something happens, you'll be glad you did. If she shoots you down, then at least you know you didn't lose out for lack of trying.
2006-09-10 01:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by bugnscout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell someone that you love them after you've had a relationship with them and got to know them. right now you are just infatuated with her and she'll think you're nuts if you just come up and say "I love you"
2006-09-10 01:48:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋