I told one of my long time friends that i liked her as more than a friend, but then she started acted wierd around me and not tlakin to me much, what can i do to at least restore our friendship?
2006-09-09 18:40:33 · 12 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably feels very uncomfortable or she might like you who knows? If she likes you, she probably just doesn't know how to express it very well. You have to talk to her and ask her how she feels about this situation, and why she's acting really wierd. If she just likes you as a friend, then it isn't the end of the world. Breaking up a relationship with a friend just isn't worth it then. Maybe you just gotta wait it out to see if she really likes you or not. Only time will tell!
hope this helps (:
2006-09-09 18:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a sit-down-talk. Let her know that you feel better getting that info off your chest but you do NOT expect her to reciprocate those feelings. Let her know there is no pressure, you just needed to put it out there because you respect the friendship. No secrets. Tell her that she's acting wierd, get her to talk. Tell her that you both need to say all you need to say and not leave until you both are comfortable with the situation.
2006-09-09 18:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by Yes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is give it some time. She's gotta see you get over it and possibly find someone else. The reason she isn't talking to you as much is because she doesn't want to lose you as a friend. Personally I'd take a friend over a girlfriend any day.
2006-09-09 18:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I buy her a wild rose! Then hope you have something great in ya heart to share with this sweet lady !l
Let her be free if she like you give her time... No pressure accept her feelings laugh and let it go! Love is free if it meant to be it be ...Enjoy life rockon lol... Lighting up....
2006-09-09 18:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU JUST NEED TO TALK TO HER, AND LET HER KNOW'
THAT YOU VALUE HER FRIENDSHIP, AND GO FROM THERE
SHE MAY BE JUST A LITTLE THROWN BY THE FACT THAT
YOU TOLD HER HOW YOU FEEL. AND SHE MAY FEEL THAT
IT WILL CHANGE EVERYTHING. SHE MAY NOT FEEL WHAT
YOU FEEL SO SHE SOMEWHAT CONFUSED ABOUT
WHAT TO DO OR TO SAY TO YOU.
2006-09-09 18:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe this news is overwhelming to her... i am a very analytical person.. so maybe she just needs time to think it over... she will come around.. just give her time she will see soon...
2006-09-09 18:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to forget it and you understand that you can't be more than friends.
2006-09-09 18:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her "i've been thinkin lately and i think we're just better off as friends", it'll work but i dont recoment that cuz its just gonna be killing you on the inside
2006-09-09 18:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by Richard R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She probably thought you meant what you said in a sexual way.
2006-09-09 18:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a gf and introduce her to your friend
2006-09-09 18:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋