So last night I went to a football game/party with my friends and ex boyfriend tagged along (I didn't invite him nor really want him there our mutual friends wanted him to come).Hes a jerk the whole night to me and kept saying mean things.I think it had a lot to do with me flirting with 2 guy friends of mine who are hot .This was after we had a water fight....i know a little imature and flirting alot.Also at one point one of the guys chased me grabed me by my waist the same guy threw ice down the front of my shirt .Then the other guy who is supposedly a minor player wrapped his arm around me kept touching my back ,poke me and flirting with me,we had a water fight and he flirted with me. one of the guys I was flirting with is a minor player and he flirted with me alot anda another girl.(the minor player guy)got a little too close for comfort he also said to my friends kiss already and that he would probably end up kissing me before they kissed they were watching the pda since her siste
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r was there.What do you think about the guys behavior and my exs behavior.Do you think he was just unhappy because few girls except the girls he friend s with care about him and the fact that few girls flirt with him and tons well 2 guys flirted with me who are very hot.
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Foar all those people here is the question:What do you think about the guys behavior and my exs behavior?Do you think he was just unhappy because few girls except the girls he friend s with care about him and the fact that few girls flirt with him and tons well 2 guys flirted with me who are very hot?
2006-09-09 18:34:36 · 10 answers · asked by movin12006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer to your ex-boyfriends behavior is obvious: he is jealous. He tagged along to try to spend some time with you. He still likes you in some way, even if he doesn't admit it. He wanted your attention, and possibly the chance to win you back. He was probably upset because you showed very clearly that you have moved on with your life, you are over him, and you are ready for dating other guys. If you don't like your ex anymore, and your question indicates you don't, then the next time he's around because of mutual friends, ignore him. Whatever he has to say is out of spite, so you don't have to dignify it with a response.
The other guys who flirted with you probably like you. Most guys flirt like that when they want the girls attention. While it may have just been all in good fun, chances are they are attracted to you. Give them some time and see how they act towards you. If you see them in school on Monday, and they ignore you, then you will know it was just goofing off at a game. If they go out of their way to talk to you and continue to flirt, even mildly, then you know that there is some feeling there. Wait it out to know for sure before you make any moves towards them. They should approach you first, not the other way around. They already know that you are open to them, you've told them with your actions they have your OK to flirt. You've also acted like you would be willing to date either of them, so you don't have to ask them out.
2006-09-09 18:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, your question is much too WORDY and has poorly constructed sentence structure, misspellings (come-on, the world ANSWER is on the same page!), punctuation and is generally un-readable. I second the concept of you spending more time with an English book.
I didn't want to work my way through reading your long paragraph a second time to get what the problem is in the first place. So what I got is that you're young and flirting and having a water fight and your former boyfriend was there. Is anyone accusing you of anything? Is your behavior out of line? Why did you let a guy pull your shirt open if you didn't want him to get a peek? Don't cheapen yourself if you really don't want to be cheap. If you don't want to get a bad reputation, don't do the things that will make boys brag and girls talk behind your back, or worse threaten you or start fights.
Flirting is flirting. It doesn't mean a thing unless someone asks for a date, and you shouldn't be kissing some water-throwing guy just because he's "hot." A man should have something to offer to a woman in a respectful manner before expecting kissing. If you want to be used and tossed away like toilet paper, you seem to be on the right track. Start using some self-respect and behave in a way that demands the males around you behave in a respectful manner to you. You don't have to be a player, they just get full of diseases eventually anyway.
Peace.
2006-09-09 20:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Polly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to learn how to put your words together to form a complete sentence.Very hard to read, although I got the jist of it. That was real dumb, and way too long for me to have to fight my way through just to read.Instead of worrying about flirting and partying with a couple of hot guys, you should study real hard in your english class. If you are already out of school, GO BACK!
2006-09-09 18:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by bana_q_wax 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're desperately enjoying all the attention you can get. seriously, you remembered every little touch from every little guy in your group. why don't you think a little about your behavior instead of making such a big deal of your ex's and the other guys' behavior.
2006-09-09 18:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well since u moved on let it go and not worry about it...... however if u are still friends I might casually mention that so and so invited me to the prom. Other wise let it be it would hurt more if u told him, like rubbing salt in an open wound. Morgaine
2016-03-27 04:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what he thinks,he's an ex.Do what makes you happy.
2006-09-09 18:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex is probably jealous forget him and move on with your life
2006-09-09 18:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure they like u.but after u have sex will they still like u is the question.becareful not to get hurt!!!!
2006-09-09 20:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You lost me....
2006-09-09 18:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too long......
2006-09-09 18:38:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋