Do you ever feel like testing him, to make sure he'll really stick around when you get pregnant?
2006-09-09 18:29:43 · 19 answers · asked by Brackalicious 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I once thought I might be pregnant ..so from there I managed to see his response. As for lying, I think its pretty common for girls to do that. But the guy will doubt and your intentions when made known might not be positive for the relationship.
Good Luck!
2006-09-09 18:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Laetishaa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i believe that is totally wrong...If u want to know if he is going to stick around then just come out plain jane and ask him. Then u will definately have an answer. If u tell your partner your pregnant and then just say u lied about it to find out if he would stay with u then HE WOULD leave u for lying to him in the first place.
2006-09-10 01:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, rather childish, why would you tell him you are pregnant when you are not. If he loves you he will stick around, putting it to the test by pretending pregnancy may drive him away when he finds out it was a hoax. If you have to do something like this either you are unsure of his love for you or you have big insecurities.
2006-09-10 01:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ive done it. Every guy is different. Some get freaked out, and wont talk to ya anymore, and others get all geeked out about being a dad! then when you find out the truth that they'll stick around and you have to tell them that your not, it hurts them and they get to where they dont trust you or believe you. so I would find a different way to see if your guy will stick around!
2006-09-10 01:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by Tweetalette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!! I believe in trust, communication & yes Karma. If you fake a scenerio like that your gambling with all your chances of ever having a happy & healthy pregnacy. Instead, communicate with your man and discuss if you both want kids presently or in the future. Ladies be smart and PROTECT yourself.
2006-09-10 02:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by bridgeandtunnelgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lying to a man like that is the worst thing you can do, because they will never trust you again. I don't think you want that to happen. always be honest with your man. that's the best thing to do if you want a good relationship. I think this is a question that you need to ask a man and not to ladies!
2006-09-10 01:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by v k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do wait for the back fire
If someone I loved told me she was pregnant I would ask her to marry me, but when I found out she was lying then we would have a big problem cause that is one thing I will not accept!!!!
I could never trust her again when she told me some kind of big news woundering if she is lying again.
2006-09-10 01:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! You can talk about this without it being a test.
And make sure you are using good birth control until you can have a real conversation and decide you both want and are ready for kids!
2006-09-10 01:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't call it lying...I would call it joking...
Let me explain...I've joked and said I'm pregnant and when he said what...I would be like just kidding...I've even joked about it with guys I've never slept with and they would be like "well it ain't mine" and then we would have a big laugh and that was it...but I've never said I was pregnant and let it play out for more than 30 seconds.
2006-09-10 01:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. If I thought I was pregnant, I would tell him, but if I knew I wasn't, why even bring it up? why add more stress to a relationship?
2006-09-10 01:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋