I'm always the one calling or texting my girlfriend. If it weren't for me then we'd probably not talk at all.
Is it normal that I should be the only one initiating the calls or what?
2006-09-09 17:53:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no
2006-09-09 17:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by mexico 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not normal. It may be signs of bigger trouble to come. It does not mean that she is not into you. However, some people tend to be lazy in a relationship. If you start out doing the majority of the work, it will only get work. Try to cut back a little. Don't call. See if she calls you. If she doesn't then there may be bigger issues going on.
2006-09-10 00:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not normal it should be a two way road it is one side and unblanced maybe u need to ask her why she never calls u if you keep going this way you two are not going to go any were just going to stay at the same place ur at now best of luck hope i was some help
2006-09-10 00:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by white_wizard 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i get that from alot of girls that i bearly started dating with it should change once the ball is in your court give it sometime maybe even try not texting her or calling her (that way ur would doesnt seem revolved around hers) giving her space she would eventualy think of you and wounder why you don't text then start bugging u again.
2006-09-10 00:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by Aleks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes initiating communication is one sided. If she has nothing to say back when you call or text then you may be in trouble. Talk to her about it and let you know how you feel if it upsets you. Just be honest with your feelings to her.
2006-09-10 00:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel ya bro. I had the same problem with the last woman I dated. I finally broke it off. She just made me feel like she wasnt interested. Based on how well she took the break up .... I guess I was right. She couldnt have cared less. I wish you the best.
2006-09-10 00:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by woodybmi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like that when I was in highschool (and it wasn't that long ago). I was taught that the boy should always call the girl. I also felt that if he liked me then he would call me and that it showed how much he wanted me.
2006-09-10 00:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by geskuh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course not...if you are only the one who always initiate for a talk then something is wrong in your relationship with your girlfriend....why not ask her about it...
2006-09-10 01:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should work both ways. Let her call you next time. If not, then she's either playing hard to get or she's not interested.
2006-09-10 00:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are always the one who is calling or text messaging her!!! hummmm...Now turn it around.....see if she call you, etc., IF SHE DOESN'T THEN you are not really girlfriend/boyfriend types...she was just answering you to be polite,,,,that's all!!!
2006-09-10 00:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by sweet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's not normal! It tells you something about her and it is certainly not good.
Seems to me like you should dump her and get a human to be your gf!
2006-09-10 00:59:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋