I have been married for some time and have a best friend who is a girl my age . Help! Now after 10 yeras of frienship she tells me she is in love with me.
2006-09-09 17:44:58 · 16 answers · asked by maritzared 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU SHOULD LET HER KNOW THAT YOU VALUE HER
FRIENDSHIP, BUT YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH YOUR HUSBAND
AND THAT THE WAY IT WILL HAVE TO BE, AND IF SHE'CANT
ACCEPT THAT THEN TIME TO END THE FRIENDSHIP, I HOPE
THAT DOESNT HAPPEN. BE FRIENDS FOR THAT LONG WOULD BE HORRIBLE TO GIVE UP. BUT YOU NEED TO
DO WHAT RIGHT.
2006-09-09 17:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? my god im sorry, you have to tell her that you simply don't care for her that way! she has to know! if you don't tell her this could cause a big rip in your relationship! you have to tell her! YOU ARE MARRIED!!!!! you simply can't return her affections! you are commited to your husband and he is your life! tell her that! try to still be friends but somehow you need to make her understand! YOU ARE MARRIED!!!
2006-09-09 17:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are in love with your husband, you like men and that she is a friend and you care about her as your friend.
2006-09-09 17:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to **** off!!!! ure married, u love that person, hes prob just trying to screw ure life over, hes so selfish thinking of himself..how dare he after all this time?why didnt he tell u this earlier when u were still single???dont get pulled into this crap
2006-09-09 18:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's a tough one. Pick the one you love most...which i'm guessing is your current spouse. Tell her you just love her as a friend.
2006-09-09 17:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by bob888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! Dilema!!! If she can't set that aside, she was never your friend at all. Just in it for her personal gain. Set her straight, no pun, friend? or hit the road!!
2006-09-09 17:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by denny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW thats scary umm just tell her your not like that and you dont mind if she is but you do not look at her like that and see what she says
2006-09-09 17:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! well that's some news for your *** but all you can tell her is how you feel about that situation. and she will probaly still want to be your friend.
2006-09-09 17:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she is a crazy bich!! tell her u only like her as a friend and u want to stay friend and ull always be there 4 her
2006-09-09 17:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by holla_girl350 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that ya you love her to as a friend!
2006-09-09 17:47:19 · answer #10 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋