Family and friends will be bias and take your side and also they don't need to know to much of your business. Where can a person can objective help without nosey and bias people?
2006-09-09 17:44:14 · 17 answers · asked by gentlgodis 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try other couples you know. They tend to give the best advice..
2006-09-09 17:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are professionals who get paid for this, but they don't deal with problems unless they are very serious. This forum, while totally voluntary and not composed of professionals, does provide a response which for the most part is not nosey or bias. They don't know you. The problem that I have run into is that by people's questions and responses I would like to know them better.
2006-09-09 17:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I in agreeing as to first see the family Dr. and hopefully they book you to another Doctor who will may-be sit-in an listen and give reference's to help & figure out the situlation. Only thing if there is no general person then the cost etc I had to wait almost four months and I do not think my socail worker working with me but I am trying on a relationship my-self with a girl who may-be of had mutual ones and our first 2 months was wow till she hung-out one night with an old friend who said I not chance in Hell yet we are still talking and I have put my-self down so I await more to see!
2006-09-09 18:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure Friends are best people for this! You must have at least one who, you can trust! And if you have one, ask him / her not be bias to you and give the right advise!
2006-09-09 17:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone both of you would trust. If not a professional just someone you feel can get both sides to see where the other is coming from. Some church's pastors/ministers offer counseling.
2006-09-09 17:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is someone that you trust and confide in that won't be judgemental and won't take his or her side then definitely go to that person. this person should be older than you and have knowledge of relationships through personal experience if not professionally. i say DO NOT get professional help because they tend to advise what they learned through books and school rather than true life experiences. it's better to get advise from someones that's been there and done that.
i may be able to help you, try me if you'd like. should you not be happy with my advise or suggestions then continue your search for help.
2006-09-09 17:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sheesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person you're in a relationship with......also an older person who you trust, either through school or work
2006-09-09 17:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Late at night, talk to yourself, You are the only one that truly has the answers for yourself. Listen to your heart.
2006-09-09 17:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
psychiatrist would do or one of those family counselling people. your primary doctor should have a good idea who to refer you to. it's probably the best way to go.
2006-09-09 17:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking strangers where to ask for help... I sugjest close friends.
2006-09-09 17:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋