Ive cried for 2 weeks straight. I call my friends and family in tears everyday. I've never cried in front of anyone in my life..and now i just cant stop. This is killing me. How long does it take to get over someone you were with 2 years and were supposed to marry? Is it even possible?
2006-09-09 17:32:31 · 13 answers · asked by Freaked out 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is possble. Your best option is just to do your best to put the ex out of your mind, maybe a new hobby, meeting with friends, making new friends. As time goes on the lulls will subside, but it does stink initially. Try to avoid talking about him with friends or family...the more you talk about it the worse it can get. Also make sure you are taking care of yourself, viatmins, excercise etc. Good Luck!!
2006-09-09 17:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by sfs_onfridays 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 03:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give yourself time. Just take it one day at a time.
Cry as long as you feel like crying. There is nothing wrong with crying.....you've been hurt.....your in pain. Of course your going to cry. Its going to take some time to get over someone u were with for 2 years. Try to stay busy doing things you enjoy, spending time with family and friends, write down your thoughts and feelings in a journal, watch movies you like, read a good book.
Remember----one day at a time. You will see....in time.....you will begin to see a light at the end of the tunnel.
2006-09-09 17:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Crying is a way to cleanse the soul. You may not be crying just for him you may be crying at what had happen and what could of happened. You will stop crying when the time is right just hang in there the pain will soon ease and you will be able to move on to bigger and better things.
2006-09-09 17:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you. When you're ready to stop you will. There's no set time limit. This is just a temporary set back. Life goes on. If the tears bother you that bad, distract yourself. Get a pet or something to direct your attention to.
2006-09-09 17:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by heather m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals. First of all pull yourself together. Regrettably relationships fall apart sometimes and the sooner you put your energies to something more constructive the better off you will be. Learn something you have always wanted to do. You might be surprised, Mr. or Mrs. Right just might be around the corner.
2006-09-09 17:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sky Ranger 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's time to place those tears on carry and initiate finding after your self. You grew accumstomed to being area of a pair and viewing issues from the welfare of the couple. issues have replaced. it extremely is a blessing that he substitute into common and in strengthen approximately his emotions--whether it extremely is time you took that recommendations in and comprehend which you're on your very own. as quickly as you get use to being on my own--an entire new worldwide will open up. you would be wild and unfastened. Independence is the main--discover ways to love your self. look at factors on campus that would want that may additionally assist you--counseling or psychologist centers would be useful. provide up waiting to get his interest or for him to coach subject--additionally attempting to guilt somebody into returning isn't a passable answer--it extremely is time you practiced self love. you're sturdy and clever--you will determine it out. sturdy success
2016-09-30 13:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard, for me it took for a month and after that it didnt get any easier. I dont wanna make you feel worse but its true as long as your not letting go it hurts. Make your life a new meaning, and new things to wait. That will make the pain easier.
2006-09-09 17:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by serina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as it takes - there are no rules for getting over someone. Get it out of your system and move on - it will get better you can be assured
2006-09-09 17:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by leos1964 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. I think it is highly likely that you'll move on. Especially if you start to take interest in another person.
2006-09-09 17:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by UVRay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋