So I met this guy through a couple of friends, and it was made clear from the beggining that he didnt want a relationship and I was cool with that cause I was just looking for some fun, but I fell for him...big time, so after alot of convincing I worked up enough courage to ask him if he still was not wanting a relationship because I was confussed about how he was acting with me, and he said "at this point I cant be the guy to give you more".
I really do like spending time with him, he makes me happy, but im finding that I really want the relationship.
Ive been told that he really does like me he just isnt one for relationships right now, Ive tried doing the "ignoring" thing, but I caved when he tried to get ahold of me...
Im not sure what I should do....really ignore him for a bit, completely end it, I dont know....and I also dont know how to stay strong enough for any of this...
2006-09-09 17:06:52 · 4 answers · asked by sweet_cheeky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i guess the bes tthing you can do is try to talk to him about it again and if he still refuses to be in a relationship then just settle wiht friends or the better friends with benefits so you can still have fun but still arent tied down......so....i wish you the best of luck....hope i helped
2006-09-09 17:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by thekidwiththeredhair_yay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful that he has been honest with you and isn't stringing you along.
I say remain friends but start looking around for someone else. He may come around, he may not.
2006-09-09 17:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try being a little distant for a while, and see what that brings!!! Be a little cool for a while as well, and see how he reacts. See what happens. What is your rush anyway???
2006-09-09 17:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONG, HE WAS HONEST WITH
YOU FROM THE BEGINNING, SO YOU NEED TO RESPECT
HIS DECISION. IF YOU AE LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP
THEN YOU REALLY SHOULD CUT YOUR LOSES AND MOVE
ON THE ONLY PERSON THAT WILL GET HURT IN THIS
IS YOU.
2006-09-09 17:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋