2006-09-09 17:01:39 · 17 answers · asked by keshasibley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've already proven that you can't be trusted.
2006-09-09 17:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what you were talking about...If it was general conversation and may have included comments that you were with someone who made you happy..whats the big deal? If you shared with him what you discussed and he still doesnt trust you..he is insecure. If you and your ex have a good enough relationship that you can be friends and still talk, it is something your boyfriend has to accept and respect. Now if you were having a different kind of conversation with your ex or your were having a conversation after sharing with your boyfriend stories of being mistreated he does have a right to feel upset and regaining his trust is going to be a task that may take a week, a month or never happen, depending on your boyfriend. However, remember trust is something that is fairly easy to get, easier to lose and almost impossible to regain once its lost.
2006-09-09 17:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking to your ex husband should not cause a breakup. The ex has a past with you. Does he think you just hatched out of an egg with no other connections. He must really be insecure.. there is no gaining trust with a person with these deep seated problems. He'll just pull this over & over & make you miserable.
Run away for your life & mental health, run very fast.
2006-09-09 17:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by Celtic Tejas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am guessing he had to find out instead of u telling him up front. even if it was innocent, it seems sneaky. he may never trust u.
to get him back and his trust u will need to do something totally outragously wild. something that shows u put alot of work and effort to say u r sorry for the misunderstanding. without knowing more about ur bf i can't exactly tell u what that is. it would have to be something totally for him. what does he like to do? what kind of person is he? what r his hobbies?
here is an example: i made an honest mistake with my gf a few days before xmas. i hurt her feelings, i wanted to make it up to her. so i remembered she feel in love with a dress. she saw it on vacation, so i drove 650 miles to buy her the dress for xmas.
she was so overwhelmed with the jesture she totally forgave me.
2006-09-09 17:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend. I mean, get real. It's highly likely that some time in your life it will be necessary to talk to your ex-hubby. If your current bf cannot handle you having a conversation with another man let alone someone you were married to, the bf is way too insecure.
Dump him, gf!
2006-09-09 17:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by fugutastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't, he was worth it. There are more and better guys out there. Don't settle for less. Define what you want in a man. Go hunt him down. The meek shall inherit what is left of the earth. You want leftovers? If you find yourself getting Riff-Raff up grade your self (educate yourself).
Your ex is old Baggage don't buy it back, makes you look like a suckker/loser. Stand up and move on to greener pastures you deserve it.
2006-09-09 17:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, I wouldn't trust you again. Why would you need to talk to your ex husband? Unless you have children with the man, you don't need to be corresponding with him if you have a boyfriend. Now if you have kids together, there is no way you're going to be able to live your life without their dad being involved. Hope it works out. Godloveya.
2006-09-09 17:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell the whole story of what really happened and why you were talking to him in the first place.
Plus what did you tell your bf as for why you were talking to him.
its a two way street sweet heart no one should never play games.
2006-09-09 17:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by concrete water 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He broke up with you for talking to someone you were once MARRIED to? Sounds to me like you are better off without the boyfriend.
2006-09-09 17:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by matty.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first how were you talking to your ex? If it was innocent, you meant nothing by it then talk to him explain that you didn't want anything by doing that, but if you did, then why do you care if he trusts you? You got what you wanted.
2006-09-09 17:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by raise_your_voice89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummm... well that is a hard question to answer but i would say alot of makeing up, begging and pleading. but if he really loved you and you really loved him and it was meant to be then it something would happen. but i dont think that the same trust that he had for you would ever be the same becuase in the back of his mind he would still wonder if.......?
2006-09-09 17:11:04 · answer #11 · answered by ~That Real A** Chick~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋