I'm kind of shy, so I don't know how I could ask, I mean we've been going out for a long time now, and I think she wants to have sex as well, is just that she's shy as well.
2006-09-09 16:25:08 · 16 answers · asked by Smart20YearOldGuy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't ask, it just happens
2006-09-09 16:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IYou need to discuss how she feels about pre-mairtal sex, some girls can like doing everything but sex so be sure and see where she stands on this subject then it will happen naturally while you two are kissing and the moment is right & during the romantic moment you ask her if shes ready to take it to the next level......but you better be prepared and have a condom !! You have to protect you both.
2006-09-09 16:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by honeyinthelexus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
YOu may think you are ready for sex... but there is no second chance... especially for your girlfriend.
The only way to ask is to just talk. You have to be honest with each other. Discuss it.
Above all... if you decide to have sex USE PROTECTION... condoms and birth control pills.
If she is not ready, respect that too.
2006-09-09 16:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by tonip1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say: 'Hey sugar plum, lets do some fornication and burn in hell!'
Not really. I don't believe in hell.
However, you may want to follow a slightly less immoral and medically unsafe(with excpetions) practice.
There's not much to say about this really, you will do as you will.
But, will all respect and no harm intended, if you are to shy to ask, maybe that means you shouldn't at all?
2006-09-09 16:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to enjoy the relationship. Don't complicate the relationship now by starting to have sex. Enjoy each other without being intimate.
2006-09-09 16:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is under 18, don't ask.
Do you think you need to trick her into having sex with you? If not, If she's over 18, ask her directly.
2006-09-09 16:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The traditional way is for you to have an engagement ring in a ring box, then get down on one knee and "propose Marriage" to her. If she says "Yes" then you can begin planning to have "sex" on your wedding night!!
2006-09-09 16:30:33 · answer #7 · answered by Jim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her how she feels about sex and what steps u would take to protect urselfs. but if ur under age then wait.
2006-09-09 16:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by mrs nevz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think thats something you need to ask,, if its going to happen it will
2006-09-09 16:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by blwatson41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude im thinking the same. i dont wanna rush it though. im gonna wait till college.
2006-09-09 16:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋