How do you get over the fear of asking a girl out, especially in my situation of me being 250lbs and her being really skinny, and I really like her too.
2006-09-09 16:09:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She did also call me weird one day.
2006-09-09 16:29:01 · update #1
Fear is not the problem here. I wouldn't be afraid of heights if I could fly like a bird. Your fear will go away with your excess weight.
2006-09-09 16:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by Roy W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let an issue such as appearance stand in your way. You just need to be yourself, and let your inner person get over the fear. Be brave! To be honest, many girls who are small prefer bigger guys - some of my girl friends say that they feel protected and more self confident having a "big man" standing by their side. I am a small girl, only about 5'3" and a 110 lbs, but my boyfriend is 260, 6'4" and a college football player. Imagine what we look like standing next to each other! It's a funny sight, but it's great! We love each other and we had no issue with the difference in our physical appearances. Who knows? Maybe she is shy to show interest in you because she thinks you don't like "small" girls. I hope that you can benefit from my advice. Best of luck to you! :)
2006-09-09 23:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Kristmas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a little overweight throws a lot of people off. When they think of themselves, they think of themselves not pretty/handsome.
If you want, maybe you can go on a safe diet, trying to lose at least a 10 pounds. You'll feel so much better. Stay away from sweets too and eat healthy things if possible.
Now, believe in your dream. You like this girl...alot. Simply, walk to her and talk to her, gently. If you are a sweet man and everything that the girl likes, then you have points!
If she doesn't like you, trust me, many girls in the future will fall in love with you, not because of your heavy weight.
2006-09-09 23:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by shewolf2899 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just because you like her doesn't mean that you're a compatable couple.
If she's not shallow, your weight won't matter and maybe you'll have a chance as a couple. However, if she's shallow enough to be turned off by your weight, who needs her?
Just bring out your confidence. More than anything, that's what's sexy. So, just be Mr. Personality and see what happens between you two!
2006-09-09 23:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always heard the only way to get over your fears is to face them. It should not matter what you look like on the outside because it is what's on the inside that counts.
2006-09-09 23:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Just_Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look at things this way, ur never gonna no if u dont find out. Ask her out she could like you. and what is the worst thing that will stick a loser sign on ur forhead uh NO!! The worst thing that could happen is her saying no which will leave u in the place u started out w/o a gf! just try it, embrassment will pass
2006-09-09 23:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by jennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start asking girls out that are even further out of your leauge,you know for practicing up for getting rejected.Then try it out on the girl you like,and if she says no just come back the same time every week and ask again. Every week, not every day.
2006-09-09 23:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by James007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is there to be afraid of? Look at it this way. Winter time is comming and skinny girls get cold real easy. With you she would have her own personal teddy bear.She cant argue with that logic. Good luck.
2006-09-09 23:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by MAD MEL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never get over fear .
Fear is a survival instinct.
As far as the girl be prepared for rejection .
They say looks don`t count ,but they do.!
2006-09-09 23:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just have to have confidence...it will get you through anything ...even asking a skinny girl out.....just ask her and don't worry about it
2006-09-09 23:13:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋