Date question:if you go on a 1st date-unless you feel that spark/chemistry/or attraction-is it all over????

Question

it seems what I have observed is that unless BOTH guy & girl
really feel that mutual sparks/attraction- it is pretty much all over-
and it really does not matter how good the conversation is, hiw
nice the person is, how much you have in common- because
No Atttraction for Both- end of story.- So is dating really a
stab in the dark sometimes since you have to have that
Mutual Feeling for both people.

How long between relationships do you think most
people wait until they hook up with someone again-
on average ????

Also, are women (esp.good looking ones)
usually just very picky in general , esp.
more so than the guys are - it seems
that way to me

Answer 1

dating is all about a gamble.