We're only in High School and I really want to know whether it is better to wait (people always say that if it's meant to happen, it will in good time), or if I should just go for it and see what happens. I've asked her to the movies twice, but she's been busy both times. I tried for this weekend and she said that she couldn't do Saturday since she had to babysit her little bro. She said that sunday could work and I looked at the movie listings. There isn't much out, and when I sugested the movie Invincible, she said that her Dad saw it and didn't like it. The conversation pretty much ended there. Is she just being honest, or is she just to nice to say no? What good date-type movies will be coming out soon or what types of other activities would you sugest?
2006-09-09 15:15:30 · 14 answers · asked by sportzman1991 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your problem is you are stuck on just taking her to the movies. She said she was open on Sunday you could of thought of something else to do and when she was babysitting her little brother you could of offered to assist her.
Stop thinking of the movies all the time. Try the museum or just chillin out together talking about your lives or something.
2006-09-09 15:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by Chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be that she's "busy" whenever you want to do something, because she doesn't want to be alone with you yet. The best thing to do is get a group of friends to go get pizza or something and invite her along. You could say "Hey, a couple of my buddies and I are going to go get pizza tonight after school, and if you're hungry, you're more than welcome to." When you ask her, don't ask her on a date, just ask her to come along when your with your friends. If you do that a few times, she may become more interested in you, and want to go on dates. Don't make her feel like she has to say yes. Be smooth...and GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-09 15:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by tessiemae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that you would like to take her out but don't want to spoil your friendship. Then ask her if she's interested in dating you or if she had rather remain friends. This may sound uncool,but, I think it's the best way to retain your friendship.
If she says she'd rather just be friends can you accept that ? Or would it destroy your friendship, if so quit asking her out for the time being and let your friendship mature.
2006-09-09 15:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her your phone number and tell her to call you. Tell her that you would like to take her somewhere and when there is a movie on that she would like to see that she can tell you which one and you'll take her. OR if there is something else she would like to do you'll take her. You could always start out by taking her to LUNCH somewhere. It might not seem so much like a date and may lead to other things. Good Luck.
2006-09-09 15:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by sugarbud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. for me just tell her that you like her and then be ready for her answer and be understandable...
no matter what her answer could be. see to it that the friendship you both had before will not be lost... times you were together will be a waste if that will happen...
say to her the things that you feel, if you will just wait that destiny will move, it miogh be too late for the both of you...
if you will tell her now, you will regret it, but if you will tell her later, you will more regret it...
be yourself,,, she's your friend right? you know her...
good luck!!!
2006-09-09 15:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by carendawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never a good idea to ask a friend out, once you break up there goes your friendship
2006-09-09 15:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Megs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she don't want to go out with you. If she did then she wouldn't come up with excuses. Move on to someone else, if she gets mad or seems jealous cause you didn't take her out first, then you'll know if she likes you or not. I don't think she does though.
2006-09-09 15:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by tricksy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's more options than the movies... proably by now she knows your on to her...and maybe she dosen't want to lose that frienship you two share... it's a go or no situation.. but if you're really going for it.. think creative.. sweep her off her feet.. make her feel special..
2006-09-09 15:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by jjt168 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she didnt know you were asking her out on a date. maybe she just thought you wanted to hang out. so ask her again and tell her that is a date.
2006-09-09 15:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really like her ask her out she probely feels the same way good luck
2006-09-09 15:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by jojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋