Is this you?

Question

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What is it like for a child to grow up in a violent home?

Chaos: The children may never know what to expect at home. Their
parents' mood can change instantly from loving to enraged.

Fear and tension: The daily anger and violence create a living
nightmare for the children. They may grow up being afraid of
everything and trusting no one.

Danger: Often, the children are the intended victim of one or both
parents. Other times, they get caught in the middle and are hurt or
killed by accident.

Confusion: The children often receive mixed messages. For example:
at school they learn hitting is wrong, at home they learn that
hitting is used to "solve" problems.

Isolation: Often, an abusive parent shuts off the family from the
outside world. And the children may withdraw from their peers and
other adults too.

Hopelessness: The children often blame themselves for the violence
but they feel powerless to prevent, stop or escape from it.

Love/Hate Relationship: They may feel protective of an abused
parent. But they may also resent him or her for not stopping the
abuse. Sometimes the children may feel close to the abuser.
Other times, they may hope he or she goes away or dies. They may
feel guilty for not being able to rescue the family or for loving
someone who is abusive.

Answer 1

Who in this day and age is not the child. Unfortunately it is too many of us. The problem is some of us that were the child are now the parent and the cycle will continue. Hope all out there can see them selves in this and fix it before any one else get hurt.

Answer 2

I refuse to read all that this is supposed to be a form to ask questions where you couldnt find info for.
please just ask questions that are to the point.
what are you asking even there are 2 questions and then you seem to have answered the second one with this huge write up of psycho mumbo jumbo.

Answer 3

what was the question?

Answer 4

no this is not me
thank God

Answer 5

NO!!