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See, I wanted to go out last night with some friends...but my parents were like 'no' and they wouldn't give a good reason. I'm like a straight A student...but they still dont trust me to go out after dark. They think that if I'm with mroe than a couple friends its a 'gang'. I'm 15 years old, and I know my parents are just looking out for me, but they won't let me go on the bus, or go out with guys. And there's so many other things that my friends are allowed to do that im not. Please help. I dont want to argue with them anymore about it!! THX :D

2006-09-09 14:14:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

13 answers

It's not that they don't trust YOU per say,,, They don't trust other people with their beloved daughter.. They care about you and don't want anything bad to happen to you.

2006-09-09 14:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Join a good church youth group with counselors your parents know and maybe your parents will let u go out with this group. I did not want my daughter dating at 15 either. In a nice way tell your parents how u fill and get them to explain their position. Be glad your parents care for u , we live in a day and age when some parents let their teenagers do anything- big mistake- u will understand some day if u have children of your own. wish u the best. been where u are at.

2006-09-09 21:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by dtb 2 · 0 0

Do their chores.

Really they're just looking out for you. You are only 15 and maybe they have set a certain age you must be until you are allowed to go out. I had that too. But once I got past that age and kept my parents trust, I never had a curfew. I was 18 and could come home at whatever time I wanted to on Friday and Saturday nights, as long as it was before 2 am, but I never was one to stay out THAT late!!

Good Luck!

2006-09-09 21:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Because you haven't showed them a maturity level yet that would allow them to trust you.

If you can succinctly explain to your parents that your friends are not a 'gang' and maybe have a sleepover or house party where you proved you and your friends can be responsible, then maybe they would then trust you out of the house with them.

Just because your friends may do more than you doesn't mean they have a better life than you, they may have parents that care less.

2006-09-09 21:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by Niche Jerk 4 · 0 0

If you started working, paying for what you use, food, internet, clean up after your self, cut the grass with out being asked. Good grades, respect them. Trust will grow and you will be more free to be who you want to be, sounds like a lot of work but if you think what you get in return, it's worth it, plus you will have good habits for later on in life.

2006-09-09 21:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny L 2 · 0 0

Bring those of your friends whom you want to go out with over to your place so that your parents know them etc. in other words, gain confidence in your parents that it is ok when you go out with your friends because they are a "good" friends!

2006-09-09 21:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by Peter_F 3 · 0 0

They are just trying to protect you. When you have kids you will understand! It's a scary world out there.

P. S. Stay away from guys until you are in your 30's. All they are is trouble anyway! (That's a joke)

2006-09-09 21:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by eddysmomma 4 · 0 0

Actions speak louder than words so make sure your physical actions show that you are trustworthy. Your parents are just trying to protect you, there's a lot of weirdos out there.

2006-09-09 21:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0 0

why don't you try just sitting them down and talking to them. Let them know your true feelings. weather or not you've done this before, talk to them Adult to Adult. they will respect you more if you let them know you are careful and smart. But Sometimes. Parents do know what's best. Even if it the kid don't like it.

2006-09-09 21:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i would ask to stay home once and then dont do any thing wrong continue the process and eventually you be the most trusted person you know

2006-09-09 21:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by lyssaandfriends 1 · 0 0

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