i have been off the market for about 2 yrs, and now im ready to get back in to that dating game. but i am not sure how to do it, if i like a guy i tend to push them away, and if im not interested i flirt like theres no tomorrow, its sorta not good, i cant help but do that, what can i do, i dont want to be single anymore.
2006-09-09 14:02:01 · 7 answers · asked by Dawn C 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get involoved in healthy activities where men join in too.Read some self help books on communicating.
2006-09-09 14:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... maybe you are not really ready to be out there, on that 'market'!?
most of us have emotional baggage but once you really decide you wanna go out there & get into that whole game you will start to do it & go for it.
the pushing away is defences (probably you've been hurt) so you also have to work on that as a seperate thing, to benefit yourself as a person not just a date prospect!
also, i dont mean to be rude but its maybe worth mentioning that very often the strong desire to not be single is what keeps people single!
Why not go on some dates with the guys you are not so into & yet are comfortabe flirting with.... dates dont have to lead to anything... you can just use them as a tool to getting back out there & meeting people & having fun...
then you can build up your confidence to flirt & hopefully go on dates with more of the guys you do really like...
im sure you can meet some really interesting people & have some great evenings out which has got to be better than sitting wonderng how to remedy being single..eh?!
the very best of luck to you! :)
2006-09-09 14:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just Look Deep In to Your Heart-Look n see if you can trust them more than u trusted ur first. Dont rush into it just walk through ur new relation. Flirt with care! Dont over react! Dont miss use the Love of him! Be A New Person!
2006-09-09 14:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by John A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great ways to start dating again. Match.com, yahoo personals. Start volunteering for a cause you're interested in. Join a social club, ie... sports club, photography, college courses, running club.
In my area there a singles connection website that has events to draw singles together for cool events, cooking classes, day trips, wine tasting, sports outings and such.
Good luck.
2006-09-09 14:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go up to a guy you like and say you want to go out for coffee sometime???? the most that could happen is that he says no. right? you don't want to be single so get out there and ask guy's out! if they say no just bounce back and say ok. and ask another one out! good luck!
2006-09-09 14:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r an immature moron
2006-09-09 14:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mystery Guest 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i do not know
2006-09-09 14:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by Yong Ho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋