okay guys;; only reply to this is u went throught this.
you had a girlfriend for 10 months. but you werent allowed to go out but went out secretly.
and had a wonderful 10 months. you lost your virginity to each other. and were each other first loves. or u thought she was but she really wasnt.
and then one day you broke up with her for another gurl. and it hurt her. and you rarely called her anymore . and always ignores her calls. but then you saw her with another guy . would u get pissed?? or jealous. or at least get any feelings for her.
2006-09-09 13:48:36 · 20 answers · asked by ily_______&?; 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but sometimes he calls me and tellss me he loves me still
2006-09-09 13:53:13 · update #1
yes, it is very understandable to still have feelings of jealousy when your ex starts to go out with somebody else,
BUT
you are being unbelievably selfish. A girl's first is WAY more important to her than it is to a guy - you say 'wonderful' all through your question - but casually mention that you left her for another girl. Really, you have no right to feel anything except happy for her that she is moving on. I guess your ego wanted her to cry over you for the rest of her natural life, huh?
I don't mean to come down on you so hard because you're obviously young. But you need to understand that people get together and move on all the time. It's one thing to still carry a torch for somebody, it's another to think that their door will always be open - especially if you break their heart.
She's not a book on your shelf to be opened whenever you feel like it. She deserves her happiness - not somebody that will leave her for some newer p**** whenever he feels like it.
Whoa sorry I just remembered that you're the girl in this situation! LOL I'm an idiot....well, if your ex boyfriend had posted this question, this is what I would have told him! :) Now I feel pretty stupid.
2006-09-09 13:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is everyone saying you are a guy? It sounds like he was cheating by going out secretly. Him finding out he wasn't the girls first isn't that big of a deal. He doesn't love you or he wouldn't have found someone else unless you cheated on him. I lost mine to a girl and she wrote in her diary that this whole story that I was her first but I knew I wasn't. She just wish I was and it didn't really bother me so I never said nothing about it.
2006-09-09 21:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by billy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good gravy, you are hot. Sweety, you are way to cute to worry about that garbage. Go out, have fun, build your life on something solid (like the Bible and job skills), and leave this anguish for the birds.
2006-09-09 21:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in similar situation... 1st i must say u are seem to be one georgous young woman.... as i was saying, we dated for almost 2 yrs she was 18 i was 22 she was a vergin and all went well ontill we has sex....... she was great in every way but after sex her attitude changed like i hoed her something because we sex...
i think women these days give it up too easy.... its not bad for me because i am a guy but it bad for the young girls out there who are left with the kids and no dad to take care of them..... in your case a man never miss the water untill the well runs dry.......
2006-09-09 21:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if it hurts its because you still care about her. Maybe its because you still wanna be with her or maybe its because things between you and her never really got settled you know what I mean. Maybe there was a lot left unsaid....Either way, it's for you all to determine
2006-09-09 20:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Don't stop! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ms, this relationship sounds very strange from the start. Think you both are better off apart and should move on and find someone better.
2006-09-09 20:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really.. because any time I am trying to get rid of a woman and I see her with another guy, it gives me a feeling of relief that she isnt going to keep bothering me.
2006-09-09 20:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUNG PEOPLE (AND OLD PEOPLE) GO THROUGH A MULTITUDE OF CHANGES IN LIFE. I AM 54, STILL LOOKING FOR MRS RIGHT. I WAS MARRIED TO MRS WRONG. SHE CHEATED. I WAS "PISSED" AND JEALOUS. BUT I MOVED ON. THAT IS WHAT WE ALL MUST DO WHEN THERE IS A BUMP IN THE ROAD.
2006-09-09 20:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of thing happens every day. You have to convince yourself that you're not the first person to experience this. Accept it and go on.
2006-09-09 20:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON...
Ignore him, keep distance. never talk to him again!
24/Los Angeles
"premarital sex creates broken families, broken families creates broken society - a vicious cycle only you can stop."
2006-09-09 20:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋