he's still in love with his xgf, but he recently found out that his xgf is getting married to someone else. but the thing is both of them have still feelings for each other i guess. i really love this guy but i don't know what to do anymore. but he has been showing signs that he is interested in me romantically... i don't know it seems like he likes me somehow but he really consufes me please advice...
should i just try to get over him? or wait till he gets over the girl then i come into his life? what should i do right now? be a good friend? or let loose of him totally?
2006-09-09 13:36:03 · 12 answers · asked by cutiefannick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be there as a friend, time will tell with this one.
2006-09-09 13:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by treasureisland85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF BOTH OF THEM STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR EACH OTHER OPEN YOUR EYES AND GET OUT NOW THERE IS NO OTHER ANSWER. really WHEN THE TWO OF YOU BREAK UP JUST WAIT AND SEE IT WILL ONLY BE SECONDS TILL THEY GET TOGETHER. WHY BE WITH SOMEBODY THAT WANTS SOMEONE ELSE TRUST ME YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE THAT ONLY WANTS YOU!! REALLY NEVER SETTLE FOR SECOND PLACE IN A MANS HEART..
2006-09-09 20:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Florida Dawn 13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him go. He's not putting his all in your relationship if he has feelings for someone else. Why would you put yourself though that. Cut it off with him and tell him, when he's ready to put his all towards the future to give you a call.
2006-09-09 20:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably best to just leave well alone for a while as you don't want him to get with you just because you are there as you will only get hurt. Give him time to get over his ex and then try.
2006-09-09 20:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by the strange one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn around and RUN as fast as you can girl.....Take it from me I am a exgrf and that old relationship will continue whether there is a marriage to another person or not....it is a dysfunctional relationship between them that will never end!
2006-09-09 20:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hav 2 admit that this is a hard ? 2 answer. but i think that if i was in this situation i would want advice 2. i think that u should ask him how he feels. If he's ready to move on or not.
2006-09-09 20:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by iheartme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE A REBOUND SO, DEFINITELY WAIT UNTIL HE GET S OVER THE OTHER CHIC...BUT DON'T WAIT FOREVER. IF HE TAKES TOO LONG, THEN MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND FIND SOMEONE OR LET SOMEONE FIND YOU SHOULD I SAY, THAT APPRECIATES AND LOVES YOU THE WAY THAT YOU DESERVE.
2006-09-09 20:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend for now and see what develops. If he's still crushin on her it may take awhile for him to realize what he has in front of him.
2006-09-09 20:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop posting stuff like this, because you sound like a complete moron! if he's honestly still in love with his ex girlfriend, then there is nothing, you can do! leave him alone!
2006-09-09 20:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by david_e22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really wants to go with his x then let him and find somebody else. hes not worth it if he still likes her.
2006-09-09 20:39:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋